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Mar 30, 2021 10:21
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer this too.
Thanks for your question.
I looked for popular women, but many of them had written nothing at all—almost as if they were already getting offers without needing to leave a comment. Of course, since I was searching among women who had joined recently, they may simply not have gotten around to writing anything yet.
Among those who had written something, there were comments like:
“I’d like to talk first so we can get to know each other and learn what kind of people we are♪”
Or:
“This is my first time registering with a club like this.
Please be gentle with me… I look forward to meeting you.
People often tell me that I have a calm personality and that I’m a good listener.
I think I’d get along well with someone who wants to spend a relaxed and enjoyable time together.
I also really enjoy listening to people talk about their work, hobbies, and other things they’re passionate about.
…(omitted)…
I’d be happy if I could build a long-term relationship with someone I become close to.
Thank you, and I look forward to meeting you.”
Or:
“Nice to meet you. My name is ○○.
I became a working adult after graduating from ○○.
Although I’m now working, most of my job involves desk work, so I often find myself thinking, ‘I want to try something new!’ and ‘I want to change my environment!’
I registered because I’d like to experience a world outside my everyday life.
I’d love to hear about your work and overseas travels.
I’d also be delighted if you took me to some unusual restaurants.”
That was the general kind of thing people had written.
However, I don’t think simply copying someone else’s comment will work.
I think it’s better to write something that feels like you, while also making men think, “What does she mean by that?” or “Maybe I’ll send her an offer just to see.”
For example:
“Today, I’m wearing white.”
“Today, I’m wearing black.”
“Today, I’m making an effort to wear red.”
If someone wrote something like that, some men might think:
“What kind of woman is she?”
“What color is she talking about?”
“What does it mean?”
“I want to meet her in person and ask.”
But as for men eccentric enough to think that way…
Do they even exist?
Other
This is Naoki Hatta from the staff.
First of all, thank you for registering with us.
As for your comment, it seems to focus mainly on your self-introduction, the kind of men you like, and your preferred type of arrangement.
I think many people want to learn about a variety of things, so rather than writing a long post, including different types of information may make it more noticeable!
I hope this helps.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
I don’t think it’s a problem if there are no comments or calendar entries.
It’s also perfectly fine if you haven’t accessed it before. In some cases, that may even make a better impression.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/6051
I wrote this there as well, but most women start with something like “Nice to meet you” or “I just joined.” In most cases, they follow those greetings with fairly safe comments such as “I’m looking forward to meeting you” or “I hope to receive an offer.” Since openings like that don’t catch my interest, I don’t look at their profiles.
People’s preferences regarding comment length probably vary, but I personally prefer longer comments because they give me more of a sense of what someone is like. I also appreciate comments that aren’t just generic and safe.
> Mr. Maezawa
> Popular women didn’t write anything at all, as if they were already receiving offers without needing to leave a comment.
Yes, many of the popular women I know don’t write comments from the women’s side either. So whether writing a comment actually leads to more offers… it’s hard to say.