I’m Taro, a male member.
I do have this sort of rape fantasy—like hoping that a woman who says, “I don’t feel anything from an electric massager anyway,” will actually react with an “Ahh♡” when you use it on her. Of course, that rarely happens, and by the time you find out, you’ve usually already gone your separate ways.
As for the person asking the question, I hope you’ll take it as youthful naivety and respond in a mature, understanding way.
Maezawa from the President’s Office will answer this one too.
Thanks for your question.
> Is it something they end up wanting to try?
I think that’s probably the case.
An electric massager tends to cause less psychological resistance for women than an insertable toy. So even if they don’t like anything that goes inside, they may be more likely to agree to something that’s only used externally.
Also, even if a woman is skeptical at first, she’s often surprised by her own reaction after trying it. That may be another reason many women become interested in using one.
Among women who say they don’t feel anything, there are also some who actually dislike it because, based on past experiences, they’ve lost control—or felt like they were about to—but can’t say that directly, so they claim they don’t feel anything.
That may be why they want to try it at least once.
You’ve probably realized that even if you say you don’t feel anything, men still want to use it. But saying so isn’t pointless, since they may accept it with a “Really?” and stop.
I think it’s probably best to just accept that this is how things are and give up on changing their minds.
Alternatively, you could say, “I’m experienced, and I don’t feel anything from electric massagers, but I do like suction-type toys. Specifically, this one I bought from such-and-such a place feels good, so if you want to use something, I’d like you to buy that.”
If you say that, some men may think, “Oh, I see,” and not use anything that time, then bring that specific item next time. But some men might also find it strange if you go that far, so maybe it’s better to continue as you have been.
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
When I want to use one, I at least want to try it once. The moment I touch her with it, it’s best to brush it away right away, saying it tickles.
If she doesn’t enjoy it, I never use it with her again. Roughly speaking, the reactions are split into thirds or quarters: some dislike it, some are indifferent, and the rest are women who don’t feel the need for an electric massager or other adult toys because we’re highly compatible.
> Why do they want to use one even after being told beforehand not to?
> Do they simply get curious and want to try it?
> Or do they use one by themselves?
It’s often when the woman’s satisfaction is low—and the man also feels that the chemistry isn’t quite enough—that they want to try one. In those situations, they tend to want to give it a try somehow.
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
https://universe-club.jp/column/anaumestick4
The woman in this column preferred electric massagers and wasn’t particularly into stick-shaped ones.
Preferences really do vary from person to person. It’s an interesting learning experience.
