I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s Office, and I’ll answer this too.
Thank you for your question.
Generally speaking, you should go along with it if the person has even a small quality you can genuinely like, even if they aren’t your romantic partner.
With a dating club, you don’t have to see someone you feel you could never like at all—that’s what sets it apart from the sex industry.
However, if you feel you simply can’t be with someone you don’t like, then I don’t think papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is right for you, so you shouldn’t force yourself.
If you become more sensitive, you may stop worrying about it and think, “It feels good, so it’s fine.” If someone truly skilled were to help you discover that side of yourself, you might be fine from then on—but I have no idea where you’d find someone like that.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
Isn’t that normal? That’s not something you should just switch off.
I think the difference is that in the sex industry, you let that part slide, whereas in an escort club, you don’t.
You got to the heart of the matter in just two lines. Good for you.
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I’m a BB7 male member.
If I can’t like the person even one bit, I won’t be intimate with them.
If I absolutely have to, I force myself to find something—anything—I like about them. I convince myself and use self-suggestion.
But it’s only mentally exhausting, so it’s better for both of us to decline. There’s nothing enjoyable about dating someone while pretending.
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