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Mar 21, 2021 21:06
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here—I’ll answer as well.
Thank you for your question.
> Aren’t most men generally submissive?
The fact that you feel that way makes me wonder if you might be more dominant yourself.
If that’s the case, I don’t think there’s any particular problem with continuing to handle things as you have been.
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You can tell that sort of thing the moment you meet someone.
Even if you think you’re an M, if you realize the other person is even more M than you are, you become relatively more S, so I think there are times when you end up taking on the S role.
Like Kazu, I also feel uncomfortable with people casually labeling themselves S or M.
If you’re looking for the real thing, the quickest route isn’t a dating club—it’s an SM club.
Marika
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I’m Taro, a male member.
If by S and M you mean dominant and submissive, I’d say there are generally more S types. In both adult entertainment and dating clubs, there seem to be more M-type women—the way they let themselves be handled tends to be well received.
Women who are used to the adult entertainment scene may be more likely to be M types. You can usually tell as soon as you shower together. Apparently, if she stays completely still and lets you wash her like a car going through an automatic car wash, there’s a good chance she’s a seasoned M.
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I’m Kazu, a male member who feels uncomfortable with how casually people use terms like “S” and “M.”
What S and M mean varies from person to person. Are you using them to mean that someone likes taking the lead or prefers being submissive?
If the question is, “How should I interact with a man when I don’t know whether he likes taking the lead or being submissive?” then the answer is simple: ask him.
Another option is to just go with the flow.
As for, “Men are generally more on the submissive side, right?” I don’t know what sex is like with other men, so I can’t say for sure, but I suspect many are probably neither.
Personally, I don’t feel satisfied unless I can satisfy the woman.