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Mar 21, 2021 21:06
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here—I’ll answer as well.
Thank you for your question.
> Aren’t most men generally submissive?
The fact that you feel that way makes me wonder if you might be more dominant yourself.
If that’s the case, I don’t think there’s any particular problem with continuing to handle things as you have been.
Did something not work out well?
Other
You can tell that sort of thing the moment you meet someone.
Even if you think you’re an M, if you realize the other person is even more M than you are, you become relatively more S, so I think there are times when you end up taking on the S role.
Like Kazu, I also feel uncomfortable with people casually labeling themselves S or M.
If you’re looking for the real thing, the quickest route isn’t a dating club—it’s an SM club.
Marika
Other
I’m Taro, a male member.
If by S and M you mean dominant and submissive, I’d say there are generally more S types. In both adult entertainment and dating clubs, there seem to be more M-type women—the way they let themselves be handled tends to be well received.
Women who are used to the adult entertainment scene may be more likely to be M types. You can usually tell as soon as you shower together. Apparently, if she stays completely still and lets you wash her like a car going through an automatic car wash, there’s a good chance she’s a seasoned M.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member who feels uncomfortable with how casually people use terms like “S” and “M.”
What S and M mean varies from person to person. Are you using them to mean that someone likes taking the lead or prefers being submissive?
If the question is, “How should I interact with a man when I don’t know whether he likes taking the lead or being submissive?” then the answer is simple: ask him.
Another option is to just go with the flow.
As for, “Men are generally more on the submissive side, right?” I don’t know what sex is like with other men, so I can’t say for sure, but I suspect many are probably neither.
Personally, I don’t feel satisfied unless I can satisfy the woman.