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Mar 19, 2021 08:24
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the president’s office here as well.
Thanks for your question.
> Bright, high-achieving students from prestigious universities don’t come to places like this.
“Places like this”? That’s a bit rude(笑)
Anyway, setting that aside—
There are actually quite a few women here who attend or have graduated from highly ranked universities.
On the other hand, some men specifically target those women. Simply seeking them out is one thing, but apparently some of these men lecture them and tell them not to engage in prostitution. Then, the day after the date, the woman contacts us saying, “This isn’t for me, so I’m leaving the site.” It’s quite a problem.
It’s possible they’re trying to get intimate without paying and claim that accepting money makes it prostitution, but the women are frightened and won’t tell us the details even when we ask.
So, a word of caution to women:
Don’t tell someone your university’s name as soon as you meet them. I think it’s better to share it only with someone you’ve met several times and come to trust.
Other
I found Rachel’s column interesting, especially since she’s a female member who graduated from the University of Tokyo, and that was one of the reasons I decided to join.
You’ll probably enjoy things more if you don’t try to fit everything into a mold and let go of preconceived notions.
People don’t really ask where I went to school, but if they did, I might tell them. I’d feel a little uncomfortable being asked on the first day, though. I’d rather wait until we’ve built a certain level of trust.
Marika
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
You can tell someone’s intelligence and upbringing after talking with them for a while, so I don’t ask directly.