Sorry for the crude question, but when someone fingers me, I assume inserting two fingers is generally normal. For some reason, though, everyone inserts three or four fingers, or fairly thick toys. Two fingers do feel a little insufficient for me, so I don’t mind, but when a man penetrates me, does he feel that I’m too loose…? I’m too scared to ask.

Teramoto from Universe Tokyo’s branch office here. Whether it’s two or four, each has its advantages, and neither is inherently bad. Of course, “tightness” can be important, but some men don’t like being squeezed too tightly. Some men are well-endowed and say they can’t have sex with a woman who can only accommodate two. There are even “tight-fit” and “relaxed-fit” types of novelty items men use for masturbation. You can’t make a blanket judgment about which is better. There may even have been cases where someone became involved with you once in the past and then invited you out again. It all comes down to chemistry, so let’s have a little more confidence!

Maezawa from the president’s office will answer this one as well. Thank you for your question. > I assume inserting two fingers during fingering is generally normal, but for some reason, everyone inserts three or four fingers, or fairly thick toys. They probably add more because two fingers seem insufficient for you. > When they insert the real thing, do the men feel that I’m too loose…? That is one possibility. However, you may also have good muscle tone, so they may not think that at all. There’s really no way to know without asking. That said, men are probably enjoying your reactions before insertion, so I think they likely like you. You can probably judge by how long they continue seeing you. Also, sex isn’t everything. Often, someone may want to see you again based on the overall experience. So rather than worrying about that, focus on how long the arrangement continues. People can also be won over by your everyday gestures and conversation, so it may be worth working on those aspects as well. > Can vaginal exercises change the inner diameter of the vaginal opening? Even if the inner diameter itself doesn’t change, strengthening your ability to contract the muscles should still have an effect.

I’m Hikōki, a male member. My girlfriend, who has never let me touch her there even once over the decades, is loose down there. She’s the only woman—aside from pregnant women—in whom I’ve clearly noticed that. We’ve talked about it, and she worries about it too, sometimes asking, “I tightened up. How does it feel?” But it doesn’t change much. After reading the question, I wondered if that might be the reason, but since I’ve never seen or touched it, I can’t say anything beyond speculation. Still, we did get married properly (although we’re divorced now—the reason was unrelated), and we’ve remained connected all these years. So there are absolutely no problems when it comes to our romantic relationship or the trust between us. She also makes an effort to please me and is attentive in many other ways.

I’m Kazu, a male member. Some women prefer fingering with just one finger, so it’s risky to assume that two fingers is the norm. And just because three fingers can fit doesn’t mean the vaginal opening is always that wide, so there’s no need to worry. That said, I think doing pelvic floor exercises to improve muscle tone at the entrance is a good idea.