Tips Mar 16, 2021 08:39

There’s a middle-aged man I know (though I’m planning to cut ties with him, so I don’t even want to call him an acquaintance anymore…) who constantly brags, “I’ve changed jobs eight times! I’m more capable than your average university professor!”

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At first, I vaguely thought, “Oh, so he must be capable,” but I have never once seen him actually get money out of a business owner, despite accompanying him to around ten company visits “for the sake of learning about the real world.” Most of the time, he’s either firmly turned down or skillfully brushed off with, “Money? Ahaha…” Apparently he has three children, but his beloved car is a kei car, and he doesn’t seem to own any other vehicle. He also lacks much of a clean, well-groomed appearance and always wears the same clothes. Because he was so excessively confident, I didn’t think much of it at first, but little by little, I’ve started to feel almost sorry for him. Since he lives in a rural area—not one of the regions considered a “major city,” but genuinely the countryside—has he ended up even more like “a frog in a well”? To be honest, I find myself thinking, “I’ve met plenty of much more impressive men through Universe Club.” Sorry, this is turning into nothing but a rant, so I’ll get to my questions. (汗) ① This man said, “Even if I’m turned down, I’ll go back and pitch to the same place five or six times.” If someone keeps coming to sell you something after you’ve already said no, it must be incredibly annoying for a busy business owner. What do you think? ② Strictly speaking, changing jobs eight times actually means he has changed jobs nine times. Until just recently, he was a university employee, but he quit that job too and is now unemployed (and isn’t looking for work). Apparently, he didn’t simply resign—he abandoned all the work for a major university project that had already been scheduled to begin the following academic year, causing such a commotion that the matter reached the university president. According to him, “Capable people quit smoothly,” or something along those lines. Is that really how it works? Even when they abandon an important project? To me, this also looks like nothing more than self-centered, inconsiderate behavior. I’d like to hear what actual business owners think of someone like this.
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Meg
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光と影
Age: 50s 👩 Female Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member. It’s not just the number of times he’s changed jobs—looking down on other people’s professions is already a red flag. You’re better off saying goodbye.
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紙ひこうき
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Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. > Highly capable! That’s not something I say about myself—it’s what the people around me say.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. ① Since they’re a nuisance, I’ll tell the staff to turn them away from the second meeting onward. I won’t even agree to the first meeting unless they seem capable of having a reasonably interesting conversation. ② Self-centered, disruptive behavior gets talked about within the industry. As they say, “Competent people quit without causing trouble.” It’s best not to get involved with them at all, including accompanying them. If you get too involved, people around you may start judging you as being on the same level as the person known for changing jobs eight times.
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シアトル
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m in Seattle. “Only the positive things” is a good way to put it. There’s really nothing else good about them. I’d like them to live without causing trouble for others, but they’ll probably keep causing trouble until the day they die. Humanity inevitably produces people with these kinds of flaws, so I think the right approach is not to argue with them and simply brush off the salespeople.
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