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Mar 15, 2021 08:55
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If I want to start dating someone my own age, do you think I shouldn’t tell either the person I’m seeing as his mistress or the person my own age about this arrangement?
Thank you in advance.
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高坂 楓(スタッフ)
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I’m Kosaka, a staff member!
I feel like talking about it would only lead to trouble—or something along those lines—so I think it’s more peaceful not to bring it up!!
That said, I think it’s really wonderful that you’re considering talking about it!!
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
Thank you for your question.
I think it would be okay to tell your current affair partner, but you should first make sure he’s someone you can safely talk to about it.
You could say something like:
“I like my papa, but I also want to think about my future, so I’m thinking about looking for a boyfriend around my age. Would that be okay? If you’d be jealous, I’ll hold off.”
As for telling a boyfriend around your age, I can’t think of any benefits—only drawbacks—so I think it’s better not to.
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Age: 50s
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I’m in Seattle.
You shouldn’t tell your boyfriend. It’s probably best not to tell friends your age either, since the rumors will likely spread.
Plan to take it to your grave, and save lots of money. Take a cue from the jaded girl in “Usseewa.”