About Someone Who Wants to Have Sex with Their Clothes On
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Even though it’s a pain to wash my clothes, he wants to do it while I’m still dressed and rubs against me without cleaning himself first.
I think it may be his particular preference, so I feel bad that I might hurt his feelings if I refuse. But then again, it doesn’t feel right to meet him wearing clothes I don’t like either.
I really hate getting even a little bit of anything on my clothes.
What do you do?
I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s Office, and I’ll answer this one too.
Thanks for your question.
Why not suggest something like:
“I really hate getting even a little something on my clothes. Would you mind buying me an outfit next time? I’d like to change into it before we play.”
The issue is where you’d change. They may be the type who wants to get right down to business as soon as you enter the room, so you’d probably need to change in a restroom shortly after meeting. But then you’d also have to figure out what to do with the clothes you were wearing.
It may be difficult, but I think it’s perfectly fine to discuss it openly with them.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
Why not buy two identical outfits and set one aside for that purpose?
Since the extra outfit is a necessary expense for the arrangement, it’s only fair that the man pays for it.
Let’s think about how to negotiate that.
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I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
I don’t go all the way with our clothes on, but I do enjoy things getting started while we’re still dressed.
Once we get to the hotel, we naturally start by embracing and undressing each other while still clothed…
In your case, if things continuing that way while dressed has become the usual pattern, it may be difficult to stop it now.
If you can find a hotel that provides nurse uniforms, school uniforms, or costumes, it might be a good idea to change into something different each time.
Though that could be difficult if the man particularly likes your everyday clothes…
And if the no-shower approach is also part of what he enjoys about that progression, it’ll be even harder. You may just have to gradually slip out of your clothes while making your way toward the side of the bed.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I generally don’t do it with clothes on, since I’d feel bad about getting them dirty.
I also feel bad touching someone over their underwear, so when I want her to keep it on, I ask her to bring a spare set—and it’s one I gave her as a gift.
Oh, and when it comes to the garter stockings she said she bought at Don Quijote, I just take her kindness for granted and don’t do anything special to look after them.
When we do a school-uniform role-play, we agree in advance that I’ll give her tens of thousands of yen for the cleaning costs.
You could try saying that you’re fine with keeping your clothes on, but that you’d like the cleaning costs covered. I’d question any man who reacted negatively to that.
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A jersey dress that’s easy to wash, resists wrinkles, and folds up small is highly recommended. If you roll it up, it’ll fit in a small bag, so you can bring a change of clothes too.
I don’t mind doing it while still dressed—it gives me the feeling of being ravished.
Marika
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