For those of you involved in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), suppose you told your favorite girl not to do papa-katsu with anyone but you, but she was actually seeing a lot of other people.
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In that case, would you be more upset if she were involved with a guy her own age (a boyfriend or a casual sex partner), or with a man around the same age as her papa (a male supporter)? Some of them might be papa-katsu partners, while others might not be involved in papa-katsu but still have an intimate relationship with her.
How would you feel if you found out the truth?
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Sadly, I’m the type who hopes she has another papa, because my allowance alone isn’t enough to support one woman.
In most cases, if she has another man or papa, I honestly feel relieved in more ways than one.
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If you’ve entered into an exclusive arrangement for around ¥500,000–¥1,000,000 a month, then it’s understandable to be angry if she also has other papas.
A boyfriend is probably unavoidable. She’s likely looking for marriage, too. If you’re willing to marry your mistress, then it may sting—but if you have no intention of marrying her, you have no right to criticize her for having a boyfriend.
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People who tell you not to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) probably lack confidence, so it doesn’t feel very good to hear that.
I never say things like that, and even if I knew the facts, it wouldn’t bother me. Even if she were seeing others, I’m foolish enough to believe that, little by little, she’ll choose only me, thinking that my heart and body are the best.
Mr. Mac,
My son got into his first-choice school. The moment his exams were over, he threw away all his reference books, so I guess his overconfidence comes from his father…
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There are just way too many hypothetical assumptions here, so it’s hard to answer.
It’s like going to Mars, meeting Martians, and expecting a question typical of a dating-club forum—whether you prefer big breasts or a slender figure—only to be asked whether you prefer octopus or squid. That explanation probably just made it even harder to understand, didn’t it? I agree.
Seriously, it’s not a matter of which one I’d dislike. It would simply be a different kind of game. With someone younger, it’s a competition of technique and experience; with someone my own age, it’s about overcoming the gap between our generations. Some people may be better suited to one or the other, but to me, they’re basically the same.
Oh, but I don’t like women who lie. If that’s the kind of game you want to play, then go all in with feng shui or something. I’d never say it, though（笑.
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