I’m a member in my 20s.
From a woman’s perspective, is being in your 20s sometimes considered too young? I’m the type who’s fine with a woman being quite a bit older as long as she’s wonderful, but I wonder if some women feel more like, “I’m not really into younger men…”
Also, even younger women may prefer an older, dependable man, right?
It seems that there are quite a lot of male members in their 30s and 40s or older, so I’m a little curious what women think of male members in their 20s.
Maezawa from the President’s Office here—I’ll answer this one as well.
Thank you for your question.
For women around 22 or younger, I think many tend to prefer younger men.
Once they reach their late twenties and beyond, more women start paying attention to a man’s personality, so age becomes less important and what matters more is what kind of person he is.
In that sense, older women may sometimes wonder whether a younger man is mature enough—or why he would be interested in someone older like me.
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I genuinely respect that you’re financially secure enough to use a dating club.
If you walked around with me, we’d probably look like a parent and child.
It might be fun to explore a whole new experience?!
Marika
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
It depends on the woman, but in the papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) market, being younger doesn’t necessarily give a papa (a male supporter) an advantage.
- They may not be good about paying the allowance—or might be hoping to land a friends-with-benefits situation
- They may come on too strong
- If they’re close in age, she might see through their persona and various lies
- It’s harder to keep things transactional when you’re close in age; you may actually feel more self-conscious
- You may wonder why someone so young is registered in the first place, which can feel a little scary
In fact, younger papas can give off these kinds of negative impressions.
Even I, in my thirties, have had an offer turned down because “we’re too close in age.” Then again, I show my face in my profile, so maybe she was actually rejecting me based on my looks.
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