I’m a male member who joined four months ago. Is there any way for me to see the feedback women leave about me after our dates?

I’m Taro, a male member. I once asked her directly, but she responded exactly as Maezawa described. Talk about an anticlimax（笑). By the way, one of the requirements for becoming an answerer on this Q&A site is having no negative feedback. So we answerers have effectively been vetted. If you’ve done something you’re worried about, why not confess it here in full and ask people to judge you? I’ll be waiting with great interest.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. There have been times when a woman asked me to pass along her thanks to him personally. I think they may let you know when the feedback is positive. That said, going on lots of dates without receiving any feedback the entire time also seems to be a good sign.

I’m Maezawa from Shacho-shitsu, and I’ll answer this too. Thanks for your question. I’m a little unclear on what the rules were around this, but basically, I wouldn’t tell them unless they asked. If they did, I think I would say something like: “There weren’t any negative reviews.” If there was negative feedback that wasn’t serious enough to warrant a warning—for example, “I was disappointed because the allowance was too low”—I might say something like: “Come to think of it, how much allowance do you usually give?” Hopefully, they would pick up on the hint, but most people assume their allowance is sufficient, so the conversation usually just ends there. I do sometimes think the other staff members probably wouldn’t say anything like that, but maybe that’s the best way to avoid friction. (I can’t help wanting to get the message across somehow.) If there’s a negative review, we’ll warn them if it’s particularly problematic. If you receive a warning, you should probably assume that the countdown to being forcibly removed from the service may have begun. So, ask the staff. Since there are often things they can’t say directly, learning to read between the lines may help you understand your own reviews as well. That said, the people who worry about it usually don’t have any negative reviews, while negative reviews tend to come in for the people who don’t worry about it at all >＜

I'm date◎yume, a male member. I don't think I was shown the feedback written by the woman. If I make another offer and she accepts, wouldn't it be fair to assume the feedback was reasonably positive? If she declines the offer, then maybe it had something to do with the feedback?