I’m sure many of you probably envy Nicolas Cage and Riko Shibata for getting married, don’t you?
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Riko Shibata’s background and Nicolas Cage’s wonderful proposal, which seemed straight out of a movie, are so romantic…
I’m wondering whether I should end things with my papa (a male supporter), who didn’t notice that I’d gotten quite a dramatic haircut and changed my look.
I went from long hair to medium length and also changed the shape of my bangs, so my appearance changed quite a bit. Even so, he didn’t notice.
Am I being narrow-minded for feeling this way?
I’m sure Nicolas Cage would notice right away if Riko changed her hairstyle, and I feel that noticing even the smallest changes is proof that someone really sees you and loves you…
He’s the only papa (a male supporter) I’ve continued seeing. I like him, but it’s obvious that I’ve become less significant to him because he sees too many other girls.
Thank you in advance.
If you’re seeing him as someone you like—a boyfriend-like presence—it might be better to end things. It doesn’t seem like your papa sees you that way.
If you’re seeing him as a papa, though, I don’t think there’s any problem.
It depends on what you’re looking for from him, but if you want a romantic partner, this probably isn’t the place to look.
Marika
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There aren’t many men who notice when you get your hair cut.
(Going from long to medium-length doesn’t really change the impression of your face. Going from medium-length to short does, though.)
I can’t help thinking that a man who notices and comments on something like that right away is more experienced at playing around.
Years ago, a male coworker asked me, “Did you change the color of your lipstick?” and I found it creepy.
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Maezawa from the President’s Office will answer this as well.
Thank you for your question.
Most men don’t notice changes in a woman’s hairstyle or other small details.
Some do, but they’re usually good at handling women and understand them well, so they make a point of noticing even the smallest changes.
However, I don’t think it’s necessarily true that “someone noticing even the smallest changes is proof that they’re paying attention to me and love me.”
If anything, not noticing small changes may mean that he values a woman’s inner qualities more than her appearance.
Everyone has their own way of showing love.
I think you should pay closer attention to the man himself.
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No matter how deeply my wife is asleep, whenever I try to make a move on her at night, she instantly throws me off. Does that mean it’s become a conditioned reflex?? I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Don’t you think that’s enviable?
Whether you’re happy or not should be based on your own feelings, right? I’m happy to have met and married the love of my life. Even if I were reincarnated, I’d want to marry my wife again. (As for this one…)
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t care about other people’s marriages, and I didn’t even know she had gotten married.
A papa (a male supporter) who comments on a woman’s new hairstyle isn’t necessarily a good papa. In my view, a good papa is someone who keeps his promises and doesn’t pressure women into doing anything they don’t want to do.
It’s possible that he doesn’t like the new hairstyle, but feels that, as a papa, it would be tactless to criticize his partner’s fashion choices.
I don’t think you’re narrow-minded, but I do think you have a somewhat limited perspective.
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