I’ve had dinner with a man several times, and we’ve agreed to meet for dinner and then go to a hotel soon.
He’s easy to talk to and exactly my type looks-wise, so I’d love for this to develop into a long-term arrangement. However, there’s a significant height difference between us (over 30 cm), so I’m worried we may not be physically compatible.
Have any of you ever found that you were compatible with someone despite a big height difference?
I’ll answer as a staff member as well.
A height difference of 30 cm or more sounds great to me! Personally, I think it’s cute when a woman looks up at you while you’re walking side by side.
I’ve dated several women with a height difference of over 30 cm, and if anything, I often felt more compatible with them than with taller women.
I really don’t think you need to worry about it at all ♪
Yuma Yokoyama
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I’m in Seattle.
My only concern with petite women is that they may be more likely to find it painful because they’re smaller down there.
Other than that, I don’t really care about height.
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I’m Kamihikoki, a male member.
Anpanman, your points ① through ⑧ are absolutely spot-on. It’s amazing—I was surprised by how accurately you hit the mark.
Point ① is especially important, and I strongly relate to the whole flow from there through ⑧. I found myself nodding along the entire time.
For ⑧, there’s that kind of compatibility where you fall asleep without moving, then wake up almost simultaneously 30 minutes or an hour later… Sometimes I wake up first and just watch her sleeping face, so I wonder if she ever does the same for me. And when she simply falls back asleep beside me, the lingering feeling lasts even longer and sinks in more deeply—it’s incredibly comforting. I’ve found that I tend to keep seeing women with that kind of compatibility for a long time.
So, I don’t think the difference in height is important or a problem at all.
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There’s about a 30 cm height difference between us, but we’re very compatible.
He says he likes it too—though he may just be being polite.
When we kiss, I have to stretch up as far as I can（笑).
The only real issue is standing from behind.
We have to get creative, like using a step or sitting on the counter（笑), but that’s fun too.
The only position I like—the one I’m most likely to enjoy—isn’t really possible, but I’m satisfied in other ways, so it’s fine.
It’s less about the height difference and more about how well our bodies fit together.
Flexibility may also be important.
Marika
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There haven’t been many answers from men, so I’d also like to hear how men view petite women.
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