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Jan 26, 2021 21:41
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This happened a little while ago, but looking back, I’ve started to think it might actually be a pretty heartwarming story, so I wanted to share it and ask a question.
I have a girl I’ve been seeing since her first year of university. She’s graduating this year, after four years. I’m a pay-per-meeting papa who gives her 50,000 yen each time, but I’m not the kind of papa who gives birthday, Christmas, or other special-occasion gifts. In fact, I hadn’t given her anything in particular over those four years.
I do buy her clothes and lingerie, though. I personally enjoy choosing those kinds of things for women.
One day in mid-December, she said, “There’s something I’d like you to buy me.” I assumed it was probably clothes again, so we went to a department store.
I followed her as she walked ahead in silence, and she led me to the miumiu wallet section. She pointed to a light-blue wallet and said, “This one.”
It wasn’t particularly expensive, so I said, “Sure,” and bought it for her. But about a week later, it suddenly occurred to me: had she wanted a Christmas present?
She doesn’t have any other ongoing papas. She’s cute and has a great figure, but she’s a little socially awkward, so conversation doesn’t really flow. She’s also not good at the usual girls’ talk.
She deliberately chose a university far from her parents’ home, lives alone on a scholarship, and doesn’t even go back to her parents’ place over the New Year holidays. There must be some reason for that. When I realized that maybe this girl, after having me as her papa for four years, had wanted a Christmas present from me, it really touched my heart.
To all the male members: have you ever given a gift and ended up feeling all warm and touched afterward? Since she gave me that feeling, I’m glad I bought her that wallet.
4 answers
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
A long time ago, I managed to get my hands on some rare concert tickets. She was practically in tears with happiness, so that made me happy too. We stayed on good terms for about two years.
I basically only give cash, but for someone I have a good relationship with, I don’t mind doing something like that once in a while.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
That’s a lovely story. If you’d said it was a Christmas present at that moment, it probably would have made things more exciting, even if she didn’t actually think of it that way herself.
This is a little embarrassing to admit, but I’ve hardly ever given a girl a present. It’s not that I dislike giving gifts—I’ve just somehow gone through life without really doing that.
Still, every time, I try my best to be a wonderful present myself (that’s my sophistry).
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Until just a little while ago, I’d been out all day, having a great time on my first date.
Funny coincidence, Mac—I happened to go to miumiu with her too. I was thinking of buying her a wallet, but then she fell head over heels for a lovely ◯◯◯…
On the very first day…
I ended up buying it.
My heart was racing and I was completely smitten…
> I’m glad you bought it for her.
That’s exactly how I feel. It’s something only the two people involved can truly understand, but it also came from being able to communicate with each other.
P.S. Mac,
This is the first time anything like this has happened to me on the first day. As we talked more, I realized she wasn’t really suited to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so we decided to pursue a normal relationship—with no allowance involved. That’s probably why I’ve been even more overwhelmed since I got home, like I’ve fallen into some kind of lovesick fever. I can’t concentrate on anything…
I don’t mind if she reads this, but if someone else who might recognize themselves happens to read it, they’d probably be pretty put off…
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
This is such a low-level heart-flutterer—or maybe it’s so low-level that I honestly feel embarrassed answering it. But I’ve already been exposing my losing streak in my columns, so here goes.
Two Christmases ago, I had a woman I was seeing. We bought a delicious cake at a department store, took it to a love hotel, and celebrated Christmas together. She’s married now and has even had a child, so we haven’t been able to meet for a while. But recently, she told me, “I want to eat cake with you again!”
That’s really all there was to it.
It was such a small thing, but it hit me right in the heart!
Somehow, I’m embarrassed...