How firm is a dick supposed to be? Once, I asked a female college student who had come back from studying abroad after sleeping around, “What were foreigners like?” She said, “They’re big but soft, and even when they hit deep, it didn’t feel all that good. Japanese guys feel better because even if they’re smaller, they’re firmer.” Is there really that much variation between Japanese men as well?

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. When it comes to pleasure, which wins in a showdown between one finger and a penis?

That’s not a racial difference—it’s an individual difference. Marika

It’s me. Now that you mention it, Caucasian people do tend to have extremely fine, incredibly soft hair, and their penises also look like they’d be soft. Thinking of friends from all sorts of ethnic backgrounds, I realized that the softness of their various body parts seems to be proportional to how fair their skin is—even among Caucasians. I’ve never handled one extensively or actually taken one, so I can’t say what they’re really like in terms of firmness, though(^^;;

I’m Kazu, a male member. I thought I might be able to answer the “boob guy” question more easily since it was at least related to breasts, so I made this a separate question to respond to the one about penises（笑） ICI injections make it harder than usual, and firmness also varies depending on how aroused and physically well you are, so I imagine it differs from person to person even among Japanese men. Reading Its Me’s answer reminded me of something. I’ve had threesomes with African men several times, and come to think of it, their firmness varied too. One was so rock-hard that it wouldn’t bend even while he was penetrating and moving in and out, whereas the other’s base bent every time he pushed into the vagina. Since there were differences even among African men, I assume it varies from person to person among Asian men as well. The rock-hard guy was bisexual, and I remember being encouraged to hold his extremely thick penis while he was penetrating. He asked whether I wanted to give him oral, but I’m straight, so I declined. I’d love to ask a soapland worker about this. I haven’t been in touch with any of them for a while, so if any of the men here has someone they can easily contact, could you ask her? One interesting thing I heard from a soapland worker was that men vary considerably in how much they swell, so you can’t tell how large it will be when erect just by seeing it when it’s soft.