I’m a veteran male member with six years of experience at the club. I know it sounds lavish, but I have a longtime girlfriend of 18 years, a woman I met through a dating site four years ago, and another woman I met through Universe, whom I’ve been seeing for three and a half years. They’re all wonderful women, so I value each of them dearly. I’ve met 22 women over the past three years, but I haven’t found anyone I’d want to continue seeing. I’ve started to feel that offering to meet someone is a waste of time, and I’m beginning to think it may be time for me to graduate from the club. Have any of you ever felt the same way?

I’m Taro, a male member. I completely understand how you feel! I actually left Universe once for the same reason. Then I rejoined a year later!!!! Wishing you the best of luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. First of all, if you already have three companions, then putting aside the question of “graduating,” I’d say that’s more than enough, in my view（笑） > I’ve met 22 women over the past three years, but there isn’t a single one I’d like to continue seeing! That probably means all the women you’re currently seeing are truly wonderful. Even if you meet several more, I imagine the chances of finding someone equally great would be fairly low. That said, there’s always someone better out there. Wonderful people do exist. If you feel that your current situation is probably “where you’re meant to settle,” then I think graduating is certainly an option. In my case, I’m in my third year of this recreational activity, but I see just one woman, and she feels like my own “settled place.” I’ve decided not to make any new offers while I’m continuing to see someone, so I’m not making offers—but I’m still maintaining my membership. I never know when she might decide to end things with me… so I’m not thinking about graduating just yet.

Maezawa from the CEO’s office here. A lavish life? Were you saying, “I’m dating three women right now, so I guess I’m living pretty lavishly”? I’m not really sure whether that qualifies as lavish, but if you just wanted someone to talk to because you had no one to talk with, then you must have been feeling lonely. I hope you continue to live your life without regrets.

I’m Hikōki, a male member. Um, are you asking for advice, or just looking for someone’s perspective? Right now, I’m thinking that once I use up my remaining credits, I’ll decide whether to quit for a while or switch to the Standard plan and simply keep my membership active. I don’t feel the need to make any more offers, but I also don’t yet feel that meeting people is a waste of time. Maybe it’s about meeting someone and confirming that the girl I’m seeing now really is better… The long-term girlfriends I started dating before getting married or engaged have remained in my life ever since, and I expect those relationships to continue for the rest of our lives. So whenever I feel it’s time to graduate from the club, I can quit whenever I want—and I can always come back. Compared with my long-term girlfriends, there are times when I feel a sense of emptiness with club women, as though I can’t experience the same pure joy. But at other times, I feel an魅力 and fulfillment, almost as if I’ve encountered my long-term girlfriends as they were in their younger days. And I’m constantly amazed that I can still meet women who are even more captivating than that. Once you reach the point where you’ve confirmed that you probably won’t meet anyone who surpasses the girl you’re seeing now, graduation naturally starts to feel close, doesn’t it? Ah, but if there’s a campaign, I might end up buying more credits again… My Tiger Woods syndrome may start acting up.

I’m Tetsu, a male member. I’ve only been registered for a year and a half, so from your perspective, I’m still a rookie (lol). Fortunately, I had a great encounter with my second offer after joining, and we’re still seeing each other. That said, I’ve never even considered “graduating.” Even when things don’t continue, I get to meet different women and gain new experiences, so I don’t see it as a waste. After reading your question, what struck me is that it all comes down to hindsight. Looking back, there simply weren’t any women among them with whom things progressed into an ongoing arrangement. That’s why you ended up continuing with three women. Conversely, if even one of the 22 women had become a continuing partner, some of those three arrangements might have ended. The fact that you have three ongoing partners and still continue making offers probably means that something is still missing.