A question for the women: Which would you prefer—someone who pays an allowance of ¥50,000 per pay-per-meeting date and sees you three or four times a month, totaling ¥150,000–¥200,000, or someone who pays ¥100,000 per meeting but can only see you once a month?

Just because we meet once a month, don’t choose the same thing every time. French restaurants every single time? There’s a dress code, I have to pick out something to wear, and it’s stressful. Sometimes I want to wear pants. I only agreed to meet once a month because I don’t want to see you several times a month, so please think a little more about keeping things stress-free! This is Paper Airplane, a male member listening to her vent in a one-on-one advice session.

I’m Jasmine. It’s hard for me to make time for one person three or four times a month, so once a month for 100,000 yen would be better. Though realistically, I don’t get as much as 100,000 yen.