Have any gentlemen ever been disappointed by a woman as soon as you met her, or after spending time talking, having tea or dinner, or going to a hotel together?

I’m Tetsu, a male member. I’ve never really felt unenthusiastic about meeting someone beforehand. Since I carefully look over their photos and profile before making an offer, I meet them with high expectations. As a result, I’m fairly often disappointed (lol). I think the heart of your question is that, for better or worse, women sometimes turn out differently from what you imagined when you made the offer. Looking back, the women who were exactly as I expected haven’t lasted very long. They’re great when we first meet, but after seeing each other a few times, I start to feel like the excitement fades somehow… What surprises me the most is the look on a woman’s face when she moans (lol). Some women aren’t particularly pretty or cute in everyday life, but have incredibly adorable expressions when they moan. Unfortunately, the opposite happens too. Am I the only one who feels this way?

I’m Kazu, a male member. I’ve experienced both scenarios. There have been several times when, during the meal on a first date, I felt I didn’t want to sleep with her even after giving her an allowance. This happened when she brought up wanting a monthly arrangement right from the start and the date somehow turned into a papa-katsu consultation, or when I met her and found that her overall vibe wasn’t really my type. A few times, I didn’t even exchange LINE contact information because I thought it would be a hassle to turn her down if she contacted me later. There have also been several times when I met a woman I wasn’t particularly excited about but decided to make an offer because the staff recommended her. I thought I’d give it a try and sleep with her anyway, and surprisingly, it turned out well.