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https:\/\/universe-club.jp\/help\/questions\/view\/4574 Thank you all for your various opinions. It wasn’t something I felt comfortable discussing with my friends, so hearing everyone’s perspectives made me feel more positive. So, mainly for the women here: how do you take care of your own sexual needs? Being intimate with a papa (a male supporter) alone may not necessarily be satisfying, including in terms of the play involved. On the other hand, do you ever feel that taking care of things yourself isn’t enough? I don’t think there are many people like me who want to be choked or spanked, so maybe situations like that don’t come up very often, but… As for me, I haven’t been able to see or be intimate with my boyfriend very often lately. (He’s the one who introduced me to BDSM-style play.) The papa I see is a perfect match for the kind of play I want, and I’m satisfied every time. However, he lives far away, so we haven’t seen each other for more than three months, and I don’t have any other papas. I’m afraid of—or perhaps not comfortable with—touching myself, so I don’t. But my desire for intimacy is stronger than most people’s—maybe twice as strong?—so I wanted to ask. The other day, I was so pent-up that I went to a swingers’ club for the first time, but I couldn’t get very excited by the routine intimacy and wasn’t satisfied… I’m sorry. I ended up writing out these unsettled feelings without even knowing whether this really counts as a question. I’d be grateful for any responses.

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This is Mizukami from the Tokyo branch. It’s wonderful that you’ve found a papa (a male supporter) with whom you feel you have such great physical chemistry! If I were in your position, I’d try to find the money and free time myself and even make a reverse business trip to wherever your papa lives. (Though you should definitely discuss beforehand whether that would be okay.) I also briefly worked at an adult play club in the past, and I got the impression that places with an older clientele tend to have plenty of interesting stories. Sometimes, just being touched lightly would make someone imagine too much about what might happen next, until they were practically drooling… Whether it’s sex, rope play, or choking, I feel that being with someone who values “communication” can make the experience enjoyable and fulfilling. At the next adult play club you visit, why not look for someone who places importance on those things? If you’re looking for a papa like that, please feel free to mention it to our staff when you have another photo shoot or a similar opportunity♪ We’ll be happy to help!

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I’m Meg, a female member. The SM club Sana mentioned sounds like it might be a good fit for you. My papa (a male supporter) was looking for someone with submissive tendencies, too. It’s been almost a year now, so I suppose he’s been shaping me into what he likes… I’m not really sure myself, but I don’t dislike what he does—in fact, I sometimes find myself wanting more. Still, going three months without seeing each other sounds unbearably lonely. You’d definitely end up frustrated. If taking care of things by yourself feels lonely, couldn’t you have him tease you over the phone? And if you don’t like touching yourself, how about a women’s toy, like a Satisfyer? Writing all this has made me think that maybe it really would be best to ask Mac about it!

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