Tips Oct 16, 2020 17:19

I’ve been seeing my top-choice woman for about two years.

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We see each other three or four times a month—sometimes for an adult relationship (intimate), sometimes for dinner only (no intimacy), and sometimes for trips. Our feelings seem to be mutual, and I feel I could support her without limit. But sadly, it’s just my nature, and I still want a second choice and a backup, so I’m continuing my club activities. Through those club activities, I tend to say goodbye after three or four dates to women who ask for a large allowance from the very beginning. On the other hand, women who start seeing me with an allowance within a reasonable range often become long-term partners, and I end up increasing their allowance later on. A question for all the male members: Women who are in high demand tend to receive larger allowances, but do you keep the amount fixed, like Mac? Do you set a fixed range, such as X–Y? Do you let the woman name her price, like Saito? Or do you increase or decrease the allowance as you see each other more often? What do you all do? I’ve lost track of what I was even asking. (笑)
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だて◎ゆめ
👨 Male Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. I’m in favor of reducing the allowance over time. I have no intention of switching partners. I’m looking for an arrangement that feels fair and balanced for both of us. Ah! Don’t get the wrong idea(笑) We’ll negotiate within the rules of the dating club. The allowance will never drop to zero!
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. I generally offer the same allowance across the board. However, if there’s a reason I can confidently explain to my other partners for wanting to be intimate with a particular woman, I may offer whatever she asks. Even if the relationship continues, the allowance stays the same as it was for the first meeting. That said, when things continue, I may also give her some spending money separately from the allowance. I never offer a reduction. Before I start thinking about lowering the allowance, I simply decide I don’t want to continue seeing her.
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