I’m a male member and always enjoy reading the Q&A. I’d appreciate the female respondents’ advice.

When deciding whether to move forward with a man who has made me an offer, how closely are the man’s overall quality (including looks, age, and negatives such as being short, overweight, or bald) and compatibility (conversation, dates, etc.) related to the size of the allowance? For example: 1. Adjusting the allowance depending on his quality and compatibility as described above. (For example, ¥20,000 if the experience involves a lot of putting up with things and stress, and ¥10,000 if it doesn’t.) 2. Only pursuing an arrangement if he meets the above criteria, with the allowance remaining relatively consistent. 3. Other. Rather than answers along the lines of “I could overlook it if I received ¥100,000 per meeting,” I’d appreciate responses based roughly around the median—approximately ¥10,000 or ¥20,000.