I’m a woman in my late 20s, a B-type, active in Yokohama.
I always enjoy reading this Q&A, even though I get the impression that there aren’t many respondents from Yokohama.
Thanks to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I’ve been able to continue seeing about two rich and gentlemanly papas (male supporters), and I feel fulfilled financially, emotionally, and physically! (There were also a few questionable men who treated women like sex workers, but I’m incredibly grateful for the opportunity to meet people I actually want to keep seeing.)
I have a question for the women here:
What does it feel like to orgasm?
When I’m being penetrated deeply by a slightly longer penis, I start to feel like I need to pee (but even when I try, nothing comes out).
If things continue, it feels so good that my mind goes blank and I can barely take it, but I’m not sure whether I’m actually orgasming… I’d like to know what it feels like for everyone else.
Even when I feel like I might have orgasmed, if he keeps thrusting without taking a break, things just continue without me really understanding what happened to me. (I’m naturally submissive, so the papas I see tend to keep taking the lead the whole time.)
I’d also love to hear about any gestures or techniques that men enjoy during intimacy.
Also, when you go on for a long time, you can get so wet that you both start to lose sensation. Does anyone have any tips for dealing with that?
I’m Kazu, a male member, and I thought Mac’s answer hit the nail on the head, so I wanted to add my two cents.
> Be careful—if you’re having sex reluctantly just for the money, you’ll lower your level.
I feel that quite a few women who keep having sex despite not wanting to aren’t actually enjoying it, even though they’re having a lot of sex. I suppose that means they haven’t moved up to a higher level. Sleeping with someone like that isn’t enjoyable, so I stop seeing them.
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I’m Marika, a female member.
According to gynecologist Dr. Miku Sō,
“People who ask, ‘Was that an orgasm?’ are almost certainly not experiencing one. Even if you’ve never had one before, when it happens, you know—‘This is it!’”
That’s exactly how I feel.
For me, before I climax, my heart is pounding, my whole body is sensitive, and my movements become more intense. But the moment I do, my pulse slows dramatically and my whole body goes limp. Everywhere I’m touched becomes so hypersensitive that it actually feels uncomfortable.
So a man who can tell when I’ve climaxed and reach his own climax within three seconds is a great match for me.
It feels like sprinting up a mountain and then zooming back down. In Mac’s terms:
A concrete hill in a park would be a 1, Mt. Takao (668 m) would be a 2, and something as intense as Mt. Fuji would be a 3.
I’ve never experienced a 4—maybe the Himalayas?
That’s how I’d describe it.
As for what you wrote:
> When I’m being penetrated deep inside by a slightly longer penis, I start to feel like I need to pee (but even when I try to let it out, nothing comes).
I know exactly what you mean. It feels good, but somehow not good at the same time? I can’t concentrate because I’m distracted by the urge to pee, lol.
> If he keeps going, it feels so incredibly good that my mind goes blank and I can barely stand it.
It sounds like you may be just short of climaxing. Since you don’t seem incompatible with that papa (a male supporter), I think you might be able to get there by figuring out what feels best for you and having him cooperate with you.
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