No matter how good the allowance terms are,
I find it unbearably painful to force myself to have dinner with a man who just isn’t my type,
let alone continue an adult relationship with him afterward over the long term.
Of course, feeling this way will probably show on my face,
and there’s a good chance the man will end things with me first.
But is it really just taken for granted in dating clubs that you should put those feelings aside and keep seeing someone for the money?
Maezawa from the President’s Office here.
Thank you for your question.
> Is this considered normal at dating clubs?
You don’t need to worry about what dating clubs generally consider normal. What matters is what you want.
If it’s unbearably painful for you, I don’t think you need to continue seeing him. But if you want to continue because of the money, then I think it’s fine to do so.
Either way, it’s your life. Think it over carefully so you won’t regret your decision, and consider which option is better for you.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member who came home at lunchtime only to be chased out by my wife, who said, “Don’t come home just to harass me. You don’t do anything anyway, so you’re only in the way. Get out!” I’m currently at a shopping mall.
Even my beloved wife, whom I married for love, treats me like that.
Before long, I suppose we’ll both simply vanish like bubbles.
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I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
The textbook answer might be, “You shouldn’t keep putting up with it,” but in reality, there are plenty of circumstances where you simply can’t say that.
In times like these, venting to someone and letting it all out can be one way to cope.
By the way, if you’re okay with talking to me, I’d be happy to listen to your complaints. I’m currently accepting submissions below, so feel free to contact me if you’d like(^^)
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・Please send an email to the address below, including the following information from ① to ⑤.
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① Your Universe Club membership number and club name
② The number of offers you have received so far
③ An overview of your concern (and any complaints you’d like to vent)
④ Your preferred consultation method (non-face-to-face or in-person)
⑤ If in-person, whether you would like a female member to attend with you
For more details, please see the column.
https://universe-club.jp/column/onayamisoudan
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I’m Meg, a female member.
No way!
You must be feeling truly desperate…
I don’t think this is something you should continue if you’re that unhappy about it.
It’s not good for your own mental well-being, and it’s also disrespectful to the other person.
Please find a tactful way to fade out.
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