Tips Sep 3, 2020 23:19

I’m a female member and have two questions. This is long.

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A man who had previously sent me an offer had made his profile public, but when he sent the offer, he said, “I got likes from all kinds of girls, but what’s that about? It’s kind of scary. I don’t want to send offers to girls who send likes.” I sometimes send “You seem wonderful” myself, but luckily I hadn’t sent one to that particular man. I had been wondering whether I should, so when his offer came right then, I was relieved—and a little panicked—that I hadn’t. So, what purpose do men have in making their profiles public? And does this mean that there are a certain number of men who don’t want to receive “You seem wonderful” likes? I had assumed that most men made their profiles public so women would feel reassured and so they could potentially match through “You seem wonderful.” My other question is also related to men’s profiles. Many unsolicited men told me that my class was Platinum. So when I sent “You seem wonderful” on profiles, I sent them to both Black and Platinum men. However, after I had new photos taken, I stopped receiving offers from Platinum men and only started receiving them from Black men. Does that mean my rank went up? If it did, I often think it would save time to search only for Black men and send them “You seem wonderful.” As mentioned in my previous question, I imagine there are many men who would find it unlikely that I had moved up a class. There seem to be quite a lot of Platinum men at every branch, so if I could figure this out, it would make browsing profiles much easier. Oh, I suppose this wasn’t really a question. Sorry (TT) I’d love to hear what everyone thinks. Thank you.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office will answer this one as well. I think people who make their profiles public want women to view them, and hope to make an offer if they find someone they like among the women who have clicked “Lovely.” However, after actually making their profile public, they may receive far more “Lovely” reactions than expected. Then, after making offers to some of those women, they may find that the women barely read their profile and seemed like they would have accepted an offer from anyone—not necessarily them. After experiencing this several times, they may start thinking: “I don’t want to make offers to women who just click ‘Like’ on me.” Since they initially had high expectations, they may have felt especially disappointed, leaving them with a negative impression. Men have to pay a setting fee, so they take choosing a woman quite seriously. They consider things like: “She looks good, but what is her personality like?” “How many other papas does she have?” “Would I actually be able to date this woman?” “What is her voice like?” They think about all sorts of things before making an offer. Of course, some men make offers to every woman they find even slightly appealing and apparently go on dates with two or more women every day, but there aren’t that many men like that. They may have assumed that if a woman clicked “Lovely” on them, at least she was interested in them, so if they also liked her, there would be a high chance of developing a relationship. But if she had just clicked it casually, that wouldn’t be the case. I think that left them disappointed. > So does that mean I moved up in rank? If I did, I always think it would save time to look only for Black members and click “Lovely” on them. If you asked that meddlesome man, he might tell you. (Laughs) He isn’t supposed to disclose that information, but I think he’d be willing to tell you, even if it meant risking forced termination of his membership. Incidentally, even if you’re Platinum, clicking “Lovely” on a Gold member may sometimes prompt him to upgrade and make you an offer. So if you can assess how much a man can afford, there’s still a chance he may make an offer. There are also Gold members whose income or assets are actually above the average for the Black class.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member. I find it confusing too. If someone doesn’t want to be told, “You’re lovely,” then why make their profile public in the first place? Everyone thinks differently, so I learned that there are people like that. That’s all, haha. According to the club’s rules, we’re not supposed to tell women their class, though. You used to receive offers from both Platinum and Black male members, but now you’re only getting offers from Black members. Isn’t that a good thing? I hope you meet a wonderful papa (a male supporter) who can fulfill your wishes.
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I’m Hikoki, a male member. > After having my photos retaken, I’ve only been receiving offers from Black members. Does that mean my rank has gone up? That may be the case—or perhaps your new photos have caught the attention of Black members who hadn’t noticed you before. Personally, I’ve never liked women approaching me based on my terms and conditions. But in this age of social media, I’m starting to think I’ll probably have to make my profile public eventually. If that leads to people saying, “You seem wonderful,” I might appreciate it. Still, I don’t think I’d want to make the kind of information public that would attract people that way… And when that man said that, he may have been trying to compliment you by saying that you’re better than other women—smart and valuable.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
This is Seattle. At first, I thought you simply wanted to brag: “Nice—I’m getting a lot of them.” Or maybe you just don’t like women who get that reaction from around 100 men. I rarely see anyone’s class get changed, so you may remain Platinum. Maybe someday, another Black-class man who can’t keep his mouth—or his thoughts—shut will tell you again...
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