I’ll answer too—Maezawa from the CEO’s office.
I’m not entirely sure what the best approach is, and I imagine you may start wanting to be with them like a genuine partner.
But I think the best thing is to consistently support them beyond their expectations—and devote yourself to that.
P.S. As I was reading, I thought, “Is this Romane’s generous papa?”
Then I saw the note: “Note: Our company’s CEO—fin—” and realized what it meant.
It was quite an entertaining read.
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I’m just as poor as Flag Maker—or perhaps even poorer—but I agree with what 壮絶 and 紙ひこうき said.
I think it ultimately comes down to what the other person is like. The important thing is to check the balance of each other’s feelings and build a relationship that benefits both of you.
Once you actually start seeing someone, the money tends to follow later. Basically, the longer the relationship continues, the more support the woman receives.
Lately, I’ve been wondering if a generous papa is someone who will continue seeing a woman for a long time, as long as that’s what she wants.
I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
I don’t have a lot of money, so I can’t offer much financial support.
In return, she’s completely free to decide how often we meet, how many times, and what we do. I won’t complain or try to control her in any way.
Instead of an allowance, I offer a low-pressure relationship that’s easy and comfortable for her.
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Since this is a question box and the poster sent me an unsolicited offer, I’ll quote her message exactly:
“Thank you very much.
I was deeply touched by how calm, easy to talk to, and gentlemanly you were.
I’ll contact you again.”
“If there’s ever anything you’re worried about, I’d definitely like to rely on you, Paper Airplane.”
This is probably just a social nicety too, right?
That said, I feel we were able to talk about deeper things than most men might have—her ambitions in life, the questions she had, her experiences at the club, and her worries.
Until she achieves her goals in life, I’d like to continue being a good partner and maintaining a comfortable relationship without placing any burden on her.
Whether through the club or privately, I’m Paper Airplane, committed to almost eternal love.
As a way of judging whether it might truly last forever, it could be interesting to see whether she eventually says things like, “I can’t live without you, ___,” or “You’re my life partner.”
Whether it lasts is actually quite simple.
People who keep feeding the fish they’ve caught continue to take an interest in and care about them, so their love lasts. They stay with a small number of partners for the long term.
People who stop feeding the fish they’ve caught gradually lose interest and move on in search of the next one. They have many partners, one after another, and things don’t last.
So for someone who likes their partner more and more as time goes by, it isn’t burdensome at all.
Isn’t the real question whether you’ll continue to find the woman increasingly attractive over time, without your attention wandering?
How much does she care about you? How much does she need you? How much does she think about you? How interested is she in you?
I don’t think the difference will come down to money or what either of you has done.
