Tips Jul 21, 2020 11:27

At other dating clubs, women can apparently indicate the allowance they want for an adult relationship. Would it be difficult for Universe Club to add a similar field?

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It may be difficult to state it explicitly, but something like: Desired amount per meeting Dinner: “enough to buy ___” Afterward: “enough to buy ___” If this were made clear, I feel it would greatly reduce mismatches and make it easier to identify women who falsely claim to be Type B. There may be male members who consider that uncertainty part of the appeal, but personally, I find it extremely stressful. If the desired amount doesn’t match, men simply wouldn’t have to make an offer in the first place, while women could adjust their expectations to some extent based on the kinds of offers they receive. It seems like that could help balance supply and demand as well. Would it really be that difficult?
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I’m Saito, the column writer♪ Please be aware that other clubs are operating illegally.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office here as well. Unfortunately, in the case of Universe Club, which has become the largest dating club, we’re not in a position to take that kind of risky approach. You might think something like “enough to buy a 〇” would be acceptable. But if that were okay, then something like “hotel fee separate, 3” should be fine too, since there’s no amount written and no one knows what the “3” means, right? It might seem like something we could get away with because people wouldn’t know what it referred to. In reality, however, the authorities understand that these expressions have a particular meaning, and naturally, other people understand them too. That’s how they act on it, so it would still be considered a violation. So I don’t think “enough to buy a 〇” would be acceptable either. Apparently, there was once a dating site where women indicated their desired amount by the number of trees. The company’s president was arrested. Most people probably wouldn’t understand what the number of trees meant, but even that wasn’t acceptable, so I don’t think “enough to buy a 〇” would be okay either. The reason dating clubs don’t ask women how much they want—or, even if they do ask, don’t tell the men—is that they’re operating in a sound manner without violating the law. Some people might say it’s still a gray area, but I feel that Universe is trying to stay as close to the white side of that gray area as possible. Though in reality, I think it’s probably right in the middle of the gray area. As a side benefit, you also get to enjoy what happens after meeting in person. Men can feel that excitement too. Well, maybe not everyone wants to feel so nervous and excited, but I think that’s also part of what makes dating clubs appealing. If you want a fixed price and guaranteed intimacy, then going to an adult entertainment establishment will meet your needs. The staff are probably trained in customer service as well, so I imagine the satisfaction level would be high. With a dating club, you wonder whether you’ll be able to win her over, whether things will work out, and whether the allowance will make a difference. You might choose a restaurant with a night view, thinking about all these things and feeling excited. I think being able to enjoy that whole process is another part of the appeal.
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I’m It’s Me, a male member who thinks that’s part of the appeal. I’m not affiliated with the club, but please allow me to jump in with an answer. Honestly, I wouldn’t want to see that kind of spoiler beforehand. It would instantly shatter the illusion. Women who want to disclose their desired monthly allowance are already free to do so, so I think things are fine as they are. From a woman’s perspective, it’s not as though she’ll accept just anyone as long as he meets the terms. She may want to adjust the amount depending on the person. Besides, she can’t decide in advance when she doesn’t even know what kind of men will make offers. If I met the stated terms but was still rejected, it would basically be like being told, “I wouldn’t want you even if you offered me a fortune.” I’d be crushed, and it would probably be stressful for the woman to have to say something like that too. If getting too particular about the details makes it harder for women to register as members, that would be the bigger loss. Also, I don’t want Universe to start copying other clubs. As a member, I think being different from the others is precisely what sets it apart.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. You won’t know until you meet them, and it depends on both parties, so that kind of thinking only cuts the fun in half… Why not try a club other than Universe? With Type B, even the slightest possibility is enough. You’re probably better off avoiding offers to Type B women.
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