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Jul 15, 2020 18:22
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Thank you so much to everyone who took the time to answer so promptly.
As expected, each of you gave such clear and thoughtful responses—I was truly impressed.
Date◎Yume
>I think that woman wants you to stop repeatedly making offers to other women.
I think you’re exactly right. Apparently, she had known about it for quite some time.
She said that because I kept making offers, she finally couldn’t put up with it anymore.
Rin
>You got caught making offers... You really messed up this time.
I did. I let my guard down. I was told I’m far too bad at hiding things.
Paper Airplane
>If my current top favorite girl told me to quit in the same way, I’d forfeit my points and quit.
That’s admirable. That’s the true path of a man, isn’t it? I thought the reason you gave was exactly right as well.
It’s Me
>If she goes so far as to say, “I want you to show me the acceptance email proving that you quit,”
there’s a chance she’ll keep making demands in the future. Can you put up with that?
You’re absolutely right. Her personality isn’t going to change, after all.
I’ve lived freely until now, so I might not be able to put up with it. For the record, I’ve been single my entire life.
Basil
>You can always find someone else, so I’d choose continuing my club activities.
That’s true. When I said goodbye to the first woman, I thought, “I’ll probably never meet another woman this wonderful through the club again.” But I ended up meeting my current partner, who is even better than she was.
Mac
>If the woman is serious about you, she won’t leave even if you don’t quit. She’ll cling to you so you absolutely can’t cut things off.
It may just be arrogance, but I somehow feel the same way myself. I guess you speak from experience?
Maezawa
>There was someone with enough points to buy about a used Prius—just under two million yen.
I looked up the new-car prices on Car Sensor and was shocked. A new Prius costs anywhere from 2.6 to 3.71 million yen!
With just under two million yen, you could only buy a used car. I definitely exaggerated.
>If you can throw away the equivalent of one Prius for that woman,
there’s something romantic about that in its own way.
Romantic. Those words made me 90% inclined to quit. I feel like I could finish my club activities with a clear conscience.
Joe
>Of course? It’s stingy, and it’s also pathetic.
Yes, I’m fully aware of that. I can’t choose between the two or give either one up—it really is pathetic.
But that’s simply because they’re both so attractive and enjoyable, and I ended up getting hooked.
Riichi
>You could have the club forge an acceptance email proving you quit and secretly continue your club activities.
Actually, I thought of doing exactly the same thing before posting my question. But I stopped myself just before consulting the club.
I felt it would be wrong to involve the club, and more than anything, this woman had confronted me head-on. I decided that I should face her honestly as well. I’m sorry for trying to look cool despite being so pathetic.
Meg
>Good luck (*>∇<)ノ
Thank you.
Once again, I’m deeply grateful to everyone who took the time to answer.
Actually, I also do a little activity through Salon, but I can’t even view the women’s photos, videos, or profiles.
I have absolutely no idea what kind of woman will come until we meet, so I can’t even imagine anything, and the time leading up to the arrangement isn’t enjoyable. Of course, it doesn’t even help me pass the time.
On the other hand, new women join Universe every day, and I enjoy it just looking through their photos and videos.
I often forget about Salon until the confirmation arrives the day before, but before an arrangement through Universe, I find myself checking the screen of the woman I’m going to meet over and over. I’m practically addicted now.
Reading everyone’s columns and answers, as well as the staff blog, is also a very enjoyable way to spend my time.
I realized that I just can’t bring myself to give up this part of my life.
I don’t know how much I can get that woman to understand, but I’m going to explain everything and do my best to help her understand who I am now. If she still says she can’t accept it, then I intend to choose romance.
I’m very sorry for the long post.
I’m truly happy and honored that I was able to exchange words with all of you.
Thank you very much.
6 answers
いっつ・みぃ
Male
Send a reverse offer to this responder
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Other
I’m It’s Me, a male member.
Thank you for replying to me by name—I’m really happy!
> Universe welcomes new women every day, and I enjoy myself just looking through their photos and videos.
> Reading everyone’s columns and answers, as well as the staff blog, is also a very enjoyable way to spend my time.
I completely agree!
What I like is that they don’t just provide the value of “matching”—they also offer content that’s enjoyable to browse and lets your imagination run wild. I think that attitude and their efforts as a company inspire women members, male members, and staff alike to contribute such entertaining posts.♡
> I’ll do my best to talk about everything and help her understand who I am now. If she still tells me it’s impossible, then I intend to choose romance at that point.
I think the female member who is cherished by someone who can state his intentions so clearly must be very happy.♡
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Thank you for your thoughtful message.
Since you’ve had the good fortune to meet such a lovely woman, I recommend trying to “take a break from making offers.”
There will surely be more and more cute women joining, including some who may be even more attractive than the woman you’re currently seeing. You’ll be dying to make another offer… (笑)
But it’s also a good exercise in patience.
I’m well past 60 myself, and there’s more than a 40-year age gap between me and the woman I’m seeing. Sometimes I wonder what I’m doing.
Still, perhaps because I don’t have a daughter, I can’t help but adore my one and only girl.
I don’t think I’m crazy, but I feel that practicing patience is also one of the enjoyable aspects of joining a dating club. (笑)
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Column Writer Flag Maker.
This has happened to me a few times when someone posts a follow-up question to say thanks: my name isn’t mentioned at all, and it’s kind of strangely lonely (laughs).
I scroll down the page, waiting for “Flag Maker” to show up, but it never does.
“Ah, I see. They probably saved their thanks for the very end because mine was the best answer.”
So I keep scrolling, only for the question to end.
“What, no thanks for me?!”
At this point, I’d almost prefer it if they left out my name every time, so I could make “What, no thanks for me?!” my signature comeback.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
This is Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office.
I hope it goes well.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kamihikōki, a male club member.
Whether it’s through the club or outside of it, you can still meet someone even in places where it’s practically 100% impossible.
Since you’ve met 100 people, perhaps this could be that one-in-a-hundred chance—the 1% that seemed absolutely impossible.
Also, you really should get married…
Marriage and being newlyweds are some of life’s greatest moments. Even if you do it more than once, they can still become wonderful memories…??
It’s difficult to feel completely satisfied or that it’s the best after just one experience…
P.S. This is just a simple question, but…
With a relationship like that, don’t you feel that the happiness and fulfillment you get from spending time with your girlfriend is completely different from merely killing time?
When you compare the two, even if killing time does serve its purpose to some extent, I think it would feel pretty dull.
And based on the level of trust between you, I imagine you probably wouldn’t feel that your girlfriend has relationships with other women through the club that are similar to yours…
Other
I’m Rin, a female member.
I’m a little jealous.
Wishing you both happiness ♡