Ladies, have you ever met someone you’re seeing just for intimacy? I had an experience like this. After the recent COVID situation, and before that my work schedule and her poor health (which led to same-day cancellations), we finally arranged to meet again after several months. However, I only found out on the day that she had about two and a half hours available, so I suggested that we just have dinner. Then I saw around 20 consecutive messages on my phone saying things like, “I want to see you,” “Please hold me,” “I want you to hold me,” and “I want us to be intimate.” I froze for a moment.
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I had already told her that since it would be dinner only, I intended to give her a reduced allowance, but she wouldn’t accept that.
She seemed to have a regular job, but after meeting twice following the initial offer, she once asked me to help with her rent, which I declined. I couldn’t help wondering whether she was struggling financially.
People have all kinds of feelings and perspectives, so I suppose it’s not necessarily strange for someone to say they’d be willing to meet without an allowance if the intimate chemistry was good. I found myself thinking that as I was writing this.
Sorry—I asked a question and then went ahead and satisfied my own curiosity. My apologies to everyone who took the time to read this.
I’m Meg, a female member.
Sencho, thanks for inviting me♪
As a D-type girl, all I can say is:
Huh?
What the hell are you talking about?!
That’s what this situation sounds like to me.
With two and a half hours, you could…
Exactly, right?
Cutting the allowance is absolutely out of the question!
Please give that poor little kitten a cuddle.
Well… but… yeah, twenty is a bit much…
This might actually be useful when you want a male member to fade out on you…
Aha-ha, aha-ha, aha-ha (;ﾟ∇ﾟ)
> Mac
I’m a seriously bad woman, you know～
Are you sure that’s okay～♪
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I’m a male member, BB7.
Twenty messages in a row…
If she’s doing it intentionally, it’s a pretty sneaky little tactic.
If not, maybe she’s emotionally unstable…
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I’m Marika, a female member.
You’re meeting her for the first time in ages, and it’s dinner only?
And you’re reducing the allowance?
And on top of that:
“What? You’re meeting me and you’re not going to sleep with me? What’s that supposed to mean?!”
I’m guessing those are the 20 angry messages you received.
A lot of girls have probably seen their income drop because of COVID, and if you haven’t given her an allowance for months in the first place, this really isn’t the time to have dinner and cut her payment.
P.S.
I’m saying pretty much the same thing as Paper Airplane.
I wonder if that makes me a minority among women.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
What? After several months, and only two and a half hours…?
In that case, wouldn’t going to a hotel be a given…?
Since it’s been so long, you’d think he’d offer a generous allowance and treat her especially well…
But reducing the allowance to dinner only…? (When I read that, I literally froze for a moment in disbelief…)
After not seeing her for so long, too.
Oh no—then there’s no point in meeting at all…
Of course she’d cut him off.
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here, too.
> …About 20 messages in a row saying things like, “I want to see you,” “Please hold me,” “I want you to hold me,” and “I want us to love each other.”
That’s nice.
I like proactive women.
Actually, that might be misunderstood, so let me clarify.
I don’t mean women who are proactive about an adult relationship (intimate).
For example, women who proactively ask to have photos taken in swimsuits to get more offers, women who send questions through anonymous forms, or women who ask how they can get more offers.
When I see women who are that proactive and really putting in the effort, I can’t help wanting to support them.
Getting back to the point, perhaps she’s having financial difficulties. But if that’s the case, she’s making an effort, so all you have to do is respond to her. I don’t think there’s any need to freeze up.
Even if her purpose really was intimacy, you were chosen, after all, so I’d think that would be flattering.
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I’m Rin, a female member.
Yikes.
Scary.
I guess.
Update: Honestly, there are people I’d want to meet even without an allowance. But I deliberately keep money involved, and I don’t go around repeatedly saying things like “sleep with me.”
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I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
This isn’t jealousy or envy.
My first impression was simply:
“What a scary woman.”
Actually, to the person asking this question—who seems to be taking it positively: don’t get carried away!
That’s probably a:
“What a scary woman.”
Seriously, seriously scary…
Am I the only one who finds her super scary? lol
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