I’m a female member. I’d love to hear from other members!
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Do you use sites like dating websites or what are known as papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) apps? I use some services besides the club, and I was wondering: if there are men registered with both, would they notice that the same woman is on both platforms?
Also, what do men think of women who are registered not only with the club but with various other services as well?
I’m Saito, a column writer♪
I don’t use apps myself, but apparently a male member I know often does.
It seems that a certain blacklisted member in Tokyo is using the app. He has such distinctive features that I recognized him right away.
We’d only met about twice to begin with, so I don’t really feel anything about it.
I think it’s best not to worry about it and just do what you want.
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I’m a female member named Rin.
I don’t see how you can compare a place like Universe Club, where both men and women are interviewed before registering, with an app where anyone can join and strangers of unknown backgrounds simply browse around looking for someone.
Being registered with multiple dating clubs is completely different in both meaning and nature.
If you’re a member who can receive offers through a club, an app like that brings nothing but trouble and offers no real benefit.
P.S.
Sugar Gentleman was developed by a working graduate student at a certain top-ranked university and then sold to the company currently operating it, right? That’s why I hear its verification and prohibited-word detection systems are so advanced. The older gentlemen acquainted with the professor in that lab were all registered as Diamond members. They seemed like respectable people in that regard, but I got the impression that, unlike at a club, they weren’t as accustomed to the idea of paying an allowance every time.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
> Do you use sites like dating sites or apps known as papa-katsu apps?
No, I don’t, because I have no need for them.
> If there were men registered with both, would you notice that the same women were on both platforms?
If I looked at the members’ pages, I’m sure I’d notice the women.
> What do men think of women who are registered not only with the club but also in various other places?
I’d assume they’re very active when it comes to dating. Since they seem likely to come with various risk factors, I wouldn’t make them an offer if I knew.
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I’m Maezawa from the Business Planning Office.
It seems I wasn’t specifically called on, but I’ll answer anyway.
> I also use services besides the club. If there are men registered with both, would they notice that the same women are on both?
Some men are registered with both, so yes, those men do notice. And they even tell the staff. (笑)
There have also been cases where a man who had inquired about a woman found the same woman on an app, contacted her directly, and said something like, “I did inquire about you, but then I found you there, so I’m sorry I didn’t make you an offer.”
> What do men think of women who are registered in various places, not just the club?
I haven’t really heard men say they dislike it. However, some women may end up being perceived as the type who is seeing a lot of people.
That said, if she’s registered with just one or two places rather than lots of them, I don’t think men would particularly mind.
Basically, all I hear is something like, “I saw her on such-and-such an app.” ...＞＜
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I’m Hikōki, a male member.
For now, I don’t need to, so I’m not using any other sites, apps, clubs, or the like.
You can tell when a woman is being greedy and keeps expanding into one app, club, and platform after another.
When someone can’t rein in their desires or actions, and can’t control their greed, the cracks naturally start to show. In fact, it comes across without them even realizing it.
Most likely, relationships formed through clubs and apps aren’t the kind where you can talk openly about anything, like an ordinary man-and-woman relationship. So you probably won’t call each other out or argue, and you end up unable to understand what the other person is feeling—even while they’re patiently putting up with you.
The brakes will then stop working altogether, so please be careful about that one point.
The other person may be changing silently, without reacting…
For both men and women, by the time you realize the other person has been pretending, it’s already too late…
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