I’m Adventure Merchant, a columnist.
I keep fairly detailed records. Not just women’s birthdays and foods they dislike, but also things like the color of their nail polish that day and the main points of what came up in conversation. (I manage it all in an Excel spreadsheet on my computer.)
It’s not specifically because it’s a dating club. I do the same with people I work with, and even in ordinary romantic relationships, I figure women are more likely to appreciate it if they think, “You remembered even that!?”
Of course, if I randomly bring up overly detailed information without any context… that would be 100% creepy（笑).
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Since photos I take get synced to my wife’s Google folder, leaving everything exposed, I save club-related photos and videos, as well as notes to avoid forgetting things, as screenshots in a dedicated app for hiding images.
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I’m a male member in Seattle.
There are just over ten of them, so I mostly log in and review my offer history.
I sometimes jot down things like their hometowns, period dates, birthdays, likes and dislikes, and hobbies in my planner. I’d feel rude if I got something wrong.
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