Have you ever found out later that a woman you were seeing because you thought, “She’s really cute…” had actually had plastic surgery?

I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. In my case, I had cosmetic surgery after I started dating. Since it doesn’t make that much difference, I once told someone: “Rather than changing your features through surgery, study how to make the most of what you already have.” People who are attractive have something about them—a certain atmosphere that comes from within, or maybe you could call it an aura. I can’t quite put it into words, but it’s there. Even someone who isn’t conventionally attractive can look appealing once they learn to bring that out. Simply getting cosmetic surgery and fixing your features won’t necessarily make you look attractive.

I’m a male member from Seattle. If she looks good and things are going well for her now, what’s the problem? I once paid for a double-eyelid surgery. She became cuter, and we’re still friends. She emailed me earlier saying she’d had a fight with her husband, was getting divorced, and asking if she could run away to my place. I wonder if she’ll really come.