Female member here. I have questions about the times men make offers and the information written on women’s profiles.

I’m Saito, a column writer♪ I don’t know what year you’re in, but as Date◎Yume mentioned, there are days when you don’t have classes. When I was in college, I attended a science and engineering university, but I finished earning my credits quickly, so there was a period when I had a lot of free time. That’s why I assume there may be times when you’re available on weekdays. It’s also possible they haven’t looked at your profile.

Maezawa from the Business Planning Office here as well. > Why would they make an offer for that time when my profile clearly says otherwise? What’s written in a profile is generally speaking, so they may be thinking that perhaps you happened to have no classes that day, or perhaps you happened to be off. Some women dislike it when things differ from what’s written, but I think it’s better to understand that men are the type who want to negotiate—what’s written is one thing, but there might be exceptions. Of course, when it goes too far, it becomes a problem if they start changing the club’s rules to suit themselves and insist they’re right because the rules themselves are unreasonable, even when they aren’t following them. But basically, men are creatures who want to negotiate. (笑) > Aren’t piercings and atopic dermatitis listed in the profile? They should generally be listed, but it’s possible they may have been left out by chance. Since men may be surprised, it might be worth checking with the staff by asking whether those details are included in the profile. That said, the section for things like atopic dermatitis is easy to overlook, and many men may only look at the staff comments. You could ask the staff to add it to their comments, but whether they write it or not is up to them. If you push too hard, it could damage your relationship with the staff.

I’m Seattle, a male member. When it comes to scheduling, I sometimes suggest dates and times that work for me, even if it’s a long shot. Since I don’t expect it to work, it’s totally fine to say no if the timing doesn’t suit you.

I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. As for the timing of the offer, if she’s a college student, depending on how she arranges her credits, she may not have classes on weekdays. So perhaps he was targeting that—or maybe he simply hadn’t read her profile carefully. I believe both her pierced ears and atopic dermatitis were mentioned in her profile, too. Taken together with the timing of the offer, it seems quite likely that he didn’t look very closely. Also, since male members are generally busy, many of them may send an offer to a woman they like first and then confirm the details when they meet her. In my case, my hourly rate works out lower than that of other men, so I do try to read profiles carefully. But when the woman who appears in front of me is beautiful or cute, everything else can fly out of my head, and I may end up thinking, “Wait… she has piercings…” (laughs)