A question for female respondents such as meg, Momo, and Papuwa.

I’m Meg, one of the female members. Wow, being mentioned by name is kind of thrilling. I’m still a newcomer—just a little older than most, perhaps. In my case, there’s only one man who contacted me shortly after I joined. He tells me all sorts of things, but I still haven’t revealed my real name. (Does that come across as a little calculated?) Still, we enjoy chatting every day. We simply talk about everyday happenings and our ways of thinking—conversations that make me feel like I’d like to share those things with him. If you’re seeing several people, things might not develop this way. I’m still inexperienced, so you’d better ask the veterans about that. Also, for your own safety, it’s best to avoid anything that could be considered risky—anything that might identify you personally. For the sake of your family and your future, too.