Lately, I’ve started to think that maybe it’s okay to “toss her aside once you get bored.”
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If that comes as a shock, perhaps women can learn from the pain and bitterness of it.
It’s like failing in business, isn’t it?
The greatest gift you can give a woman to help her grow.
Am I wrong?
The same goes for men.
There are some things you can’t truly learn until you’ve been rejected.
I’m Saito♪, a columnist.
I think one way entrepreneurs often view talent is as having:
“the ability to obsessively pursue one thing, and the ability to lose interest quickly.”
People who can’t do both are forced into the double-edged lifestyle of getting completely absorbed in something. Since the difference is so fine, it’s hard to say.
You may find yourself ending things quickly if you’re no longer getting anything out of continuing, but please express your feelings—with a sense of both remorse and gratitude—through the allowance.
That’s really all I can say.
I’m doing the same thing myself, so I can’t exactly act superior about it...
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I’m Adventurer Merchant, a columnist.
I think it’s perfectly fine to move on when you get bored. If you handle the breakup badly, though, it could leave hard feelings, so it’s best to part ways gracefully.
That said, even if you end things politely and properly, at its core, it’s still “discarding” someone.
I’ve learned a lot through relationship clubs, too.
I’ve experienced my feelings grow from:
“I like her enough to want to keep seeing her on a monthly arrangement,”
to:
“I don’t need to meet any other women. I’ll focus on this one,”
and eventually:
“I want to share my life with her.”
(She seemed to feel the same way about me.)
But even when I’ve come to like someone that much, if things reach a point where there’s something I absolutely can’t compromise on—or something I find difficult to accept—I can suddenly lose interest in an instant.
It would be amazing to find someone with whom you can get past that point.
I’m looking forward to meeting someone new in the future.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
When I want to end things with a woman, I send her a LINE message with a reason.
In my case, the reason is almost always that “we’re not physically compatible.”
Even if we get along well, if the physical compatibility isn’t there, we inevitably end up parting ways...
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I’m date◎yume, a male member.
I think you’re absolutely right.
If someone can genuinely do that, then I think that’s perfectly fine.
That said, I suspect there are quite a few male members who would like to, but aren’t able to do so.
Maybe the community works out because it’s made up of both people who can easily cut someone loose and those who can’t.
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