Have you ever met a woman who became your default?
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(Your wives, perhaps?)
Last fall, I had a life-changing encounter that made me think, “This is it!! This is what I’ve been waiting for!!” So, in order to go all-in on her, I cut ties with a dozen friends-with-benefits and a dozen women I was seeing through compensated dating.
I’m Saito, a columnist♪.
I feel like there was one woman who may have fit the bill, but as we’ve met more times, I’ve found myself thinking, “She’s not really that great.” Then again, sometimes her brightness and carefree nature more than make up for it. I’m just watching the whole situation from a detached perspective.
I feel like I’ll probably meet someone even more wonderful.
At the same time, I wonder what it would be like to meet someone who falls even further short of that.
Maybe I’ve simply lost the energy to start over with someone new, after seeing women move on by getting married, starting their own companies, or succeeding in show business and becoming too busy.
Still, I received one happy message at the start of the new year:
One of the women became independent and is now the president of a certain facility.
That made me genuinely happy.
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here, weighing in as well.
Is it a humblebrag?
Something along the lines of:
“I’ve dated 12 women so far.
Pretty impressive, right?”
Maybe?
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I view my “default” partner as someone selected from among hundreds of women—someone who accepts my offer and agrees to the terms of the arrangement.
If, for various reasons, the relationship I’m aiming for can’t be achieved, I simply select another woman from among hundreds and start over.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I’ve had girls like that before. However, since these relationships often come to an end eventually, it’s hard to commit to just one ^^;
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I’m Seattle, one of the male members.
I’m glad you found someone wonderful.
I want to spend meaningful time with the person I’m seeing regularly, so I politely part ways with anyone I’m not quite feeling a connection with. I don’t have much time, after all.
I wonder if I’ll ever meet someone I’d want to focus on exclusively.
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