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Jan 7, 2020 01:38
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Is it inappropriate to ask a man I meet whether he’s married or single?
If he doesn’t say anything about it, should I avoid bringing it up?
4 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
I’ve never heard of a man being offended when asked whether he’s married or single, so I think it’s fine to ask.
Other
I’m Saito, the columnist ♪
It’s not really important either way, so please don’t give it much thought.
Actually, there’s no real reason to ask, and it’s probably not even something I need to talk about…
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I believe I was the one who brought it up during our initial introductions.
When I said, “I’m married,” you seemed relieved and replied, “I thought so.”
I think it’s easier for the relationship to move forward afterward if both of us understand each other’s circumstances.
I don’t think there’s absolutely any risk of “being sued by my wife.”
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member in Seattle.
I think it’s fine to ask the woman directly. If you’re married, you could add something like, “I’ll be careful not to cause you any trouble.”