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They asked me to double the allowance. Should I take that as a polite way of turning me down?

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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well. It’s also possible that she felt she’d been receiving too little until now and wanted about the same as everyone else. If doubling it still wouldn’t bring it into the five-figure range, I think the question is whether you’d personally be comfortable with that. If you are, it seems fine to offer it. If doubling it would push it into the five-figure range, she may possibly be starting to feel that she wants to end things. I believe I wrote before that if someone wants to end the relationship, they should ask for triple the amount, so with double, it’s hard to tell whether she actually wants to break things off.(笑)
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I’m a male member, BB7. She may have received an allowance twice as high from another man who made her an offer. Or she may simply have said that she was offered double the allowance, so I don’t think you can say for certain that it was just a way of turning you down. If you pay her, she’ll presumably agree to continue the relationship. So in the end, it comes down to what you want to do.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. I agree with what Papua-san said. If you want to turn someone down, I think simply saying, “I’m sorry,” is enough.
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I’m Saito, a column writer♪ It all comes down to whether you’re satisfied with it. That’s what matters. There are plenty of people who spend ¥200,000 or ¥300,000 at a hostess club just to talk. Everything is an experience. Just follow your heart!
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