Tips Jan 3, 2020 19:16

Would you say that your experience with a dating club helped you grow as a person? I’d like to hear from both men and women.

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I’m Flag Maker, a columnist. I don’t consider it personal growth, since I’m aware that what I’m doing isn’t exactly right. But you do become somewhat more comfortable interacting with women, and you stop coming on so strong with women you meet in your private life. Also, I think your skills improve to some extent by having adult relationships with a variety of people.
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I’m a male member, BB7. I don’t know if I can say I’ve grown as a person, but even when I see beautiful women walking down the street, celebrities and models on TV, or young, fresh-faced college students, I don’t feel anything anymore. More than ever, I’ve come to focus on a woman’s personality rather than her looks, so I’ve almost completely lost interest in women who are attractive on the outside but nothing more. I’m also confident that, even at work, I’ll never fall for the charms of a woman with a great appearance or figure.
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I’m Saito, a columnist♪ I no longer get caught up in everyday temptations at all. lol No matter how beautiful a woman I’m working with is, I can handle myself smoothly. There’s absolutely no chance of anything happening. Even other men trust me. Whether she’s beautiful or a beauty-pageant contestant, I don’t waste time thinking: “Maybe I could win her over.” “She might come back to my place after this…” Instead, I’m thinking: “I just want to send her home already.” “I’ll keep an Uber waiting, put a little pressure on her, and send her home in it.” When a man who loves women doesn’t get swayed by women at all, it gives people a great deal of confidence in—and trust in—him.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. I’m not sure whether I’ve grown as a person, but here are some things I’ve gained through experience—including knowledge—that come to mind: Getting an overview of dating clubs (Universe only): It’s a pretty clever setup that really appeals to men. Getting an overview of the members of dating clubs (Universe only): There are all kinds of people. Experiencing things you can only experience through a dating club: Dating younger women—something that would normally be out of the question. Learning that when men have money to spare, they tend to start chasing women: I wonder if there’s no way around that. Seeing my money being used directly for someone else: It feels good to know I’m helping someone.
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