Do male members set annual or monthly spending limits for their dating activities?

I’m Seattle, a male member. I spend as much as I like. Since there aren’t that many women and I mainly make offers to Gold-class members, ¥10 million a year is more than enough.

I’m Saito, a column writer♪ I understand how you feel. I think this mindset is basically necessary, and when I first joined, I thought about it a little myself. But… “When people set limits for themselves, they become addicted.” It’s a difficult concept to put into words, but I think business owners will understand the feeling. That’s why, in principle, I approach it with the mindset of: “Spend as much as you want.” The result is surprisingly simple: you can get bored with it quickly. If you have a budget, the conclusion becomes: “Get the maximum results within that budget!” But if there’s no limit to your budget, you eventually start to feel: “Even if I spend more than this, it’s not going to be any more fun.”

I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. In my case, I set an approximate annual budget for my activities, with one-twelfth of that as my monthly budget. I don’t set a ratio between existing and new partners. I prioritize spending on existing partners, and once I reach my monthly limit, I spend nothing on new ones. Last year, I was underspending through May, but from June onward, my spending increasingly exceeded the budget. Just like the national budget, really… It’s a tactic the government often uses too, except they issue deficit-financing bonds.（笑）