Have you ever noticed that the more arrogant and blatantly condescending someone is, the less allowance they offer?
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In the past, even though things progressed to an adult relationship (intimate) the first time I met someone, I was only given the transportation fee specified by the club, which left me feeling really upset.
I realize I was also at fault for not firmly agreeing on the allowance beforehand, but if someone won’t pay you the amount you’re asking for, do you cut ties with them?
I’m not a woman, but Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office will answer as well.
> Do you end the relationship if they won’t increase the allowance to the amount you requested?
I think it’s perfectly normal to end it.
Normally, both people enter into a relationship only after agreeing to the terms, so I don’t see the point in continuing if you have to put up with something you’re unhappy with.
That said, please do send the club feedback about what happened this time.
(It doesn’t matter if some time has passed or if this was already your second meeting or later.)
Even if the staff simply know that this is the kind of man he is, it can help them later—for example, when he has a dispute with another woman, they’ll have something to go on when deciding whose account is more credible.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
> If you can’t get the allowance raised to the amount you want, do you cut ties?
I’m not a woman, but I think you should end the relationship.
I recommend pursuing arrangements you can genuinely feel comfortable with.
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I’m Saito, a columnist♪
“Rich” and “generous with money” are two completely different things.
A certain famous celebrity is absolutely terrible. He’s so stingy that everyone around him is shocked. I honestly think he’s some kind of thug.
When I’m out having a meal, I decide in an instant whether I want to associate with someone based on how generous they are. That applies even to people of the same gender.
The same goes for people who keep hanging around at a hostess club after paying their bill. LOL
Whether it’s work or my private life, I judge people by something as simple as how they pay. In the end, people who are alike naturally gather together. No doubt about it.
And men who argue that something isn’t worth paying for or make unreasonable excuses are even worse. They could just pay and never go back again.
Sorry to say this as a man.
The year-end party season got me thinking about all sorts of things.
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