I’m a woman considering joining this dating club. I haven’t had that kind of experience yet, and even if I do join, I’m thinking I’d like to start with Type A. With Type A, is it still possible to eventually have an adult relationship (intimate) with a man I’ve met a few times and come to like?

Maezawa from the Business Planning Office here. > Even if she’s Type A, is it possible for her to enter an adult relationship (intimate) with a man she has met a few times and come to like? The dating types only indicate how proactive the woman is, so ultimately, what kind of relationship develops is up to the people involved. That said, “up to you” only goes so far. If her actual level of proactiveness is completely different from what she stated, she may receive complaints for having lied. That’s the only reason it becomes an issue. Interestingly, there usually aren’t any complaints when someone turns out to be more proactive than their listed type. In that sense, even if a Type A woman enters an adult relationship from the very first meeting, “for some reason,” we don’t receive complaints. So yes, even a Type A woman can enter an adult relationship after meeting someone a few times. However, many men will probably skip over her just because she’s listed as Type A. They may not even read her profile. In this case, I basically think she fits Type B. However, since she says she’s almost never able to enter an adult relationship despite being Type B, under current standards, listing her as Type A could prevent complaints. On the other hand, if her profile included a comment like: “She’s a virgin, so apparently she has trouble making up her mind. In that sense, she’s almost Type A, but she’s a woman who will seriously consider whether she can enter an adult relationship with you. This is for men who feel they might be able to win her over, or who would be happy just having dinner with her.” Then people might think that Type B is still appropriate. I think she should discuss this carefully with the staff member who interviews her. Basically, though, staff respect the woman’s own wishes when it comes to her dating type. So if she asks, “Should I choose Type A?” even if we think Type B would be better, we’ll end up saying, “Type A would be better.” That’s because otherwise she might later say, “I chose Type B because the staff told me to.” When asking, she should first explain how she feels and then ask, “I’d like to choose Type B—is that okay?” In that case, the staff will probably say something like: “I think Type A would be better, but if you want to go with Type B, there shouldn’t be a problem with the content.” Or: “I think Type A would be better, but the decision is yours. If you feel you’re Type B, please choose based on your own feelings.” However, if, after hearing her out, it’s obvious that she’s only interested in dinner, the staff will probably explain the dating types from a different perspective.

I’m Saito, a column writer♪ I think that sounds reasonable, but rather than deciding on your relationship type here, it may be better to ask the staff for advice during your interview. I hope you have a wonderful encounter.

I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. > Even if you’re an A-type, is it possible to develop an adult relationship (intimate) with a man you’ve met a few times and come to like? Of course（笑） Generally speaking, they’re all wealthy and what you’d call gentlemen. Apparently, there are occasional “duds,” so I think it’s best to check someone out carefully before starting an arrangement. It’s not something you can exactly tell people about, but I think it can be a valuable experience in many ways.