I had a commemorative photo taken with her at a restaurant for her birthday.
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I was happy at the time, but when I looked at it later, I was disgusted with myself for making such a silly face next to my young, beautiful girlfriend.
I can’t bear to look at it.
It ended up becoming the reason we broke up.
Have you ever ended a relationship because you became disillusioned with yourself or for a similar reason?
I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
I understand how you feel. I recently met up with a girl who had already left the club, but after quitting, her hair color and makeup had become much more flashy. Even just sitting next to her and having a meal together, I felt kind of embarrassed and thought we were a mismatch.
So I’ve just sent an offer to someone closer to my age ^^;
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I’m Saito, a column writer ♪
I think your instincts are completely justified. It’s about being able to see yourself from an outside perspective…
So try meeting in a room, having meals only in private rooms, or even pretending to be parent and child.
I’m different from you, but I often feel disillusioned with what I’m doing, too.
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
I think everyone feels disappointed in themselves from time to time—except perhaps for a few exceptionally handsome or successful people. I’m talking about ordinary people here.
That said, I don’t think most people dwell on it constantly or become so insecure that they stop dating altogether because of it.
But if it’s bothering you, then think it through as much as you need to. After that, whether you stop dating or quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is up to you.
What matters most, though, is whether you’re enjoying yourself and the fact that the other person has chosen to spend time with you as you are.
If things aren’t going well with women, there may be plenty of areas to improve. But if the relationship has been going well, I don’t think you need to worry about it that much.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
This happened just the other day.
I went to an evening event, and she asked, “Shall we take a photo together?” But in the end, we decided, “Let’s not.”
In my case, the main reason was that I didn’t want to leave any trace. We’re still seeing each other, though, so I can definitely understand how you feel.
That woman was grateful to you, after all. Once some time has passed, I think it’ll become a good memory in many ways.
For now, feel free to be disappointed in yourself until you’ve had enough（笑）
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