Right now, there’s a papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) pair sitting at a nearby table in this café, and I can hear their entire conversation.
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The man looks about 60.
The two women are both in their late 20s to around 30.
The women are ugly and overweight.
Their conversation is unbelievably stupid.
They’re shockingly shameless and brazen.
Only when they’re plotting how to squeeze as much money out of him as possible do they put on an sickeningly sweet voice.
The man’s delight is written all over his face and audible in his voice.
I realized that this is probably exactly how I look to people from the outside.
I think I’m going to quit papa-katsu.
At least for now.
Have all of you managed to keep going after experiences like this?
Do you think I’ll eventually stop being bothered by things like this?
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I don’t meet unattractive or overweight women, so I can’t really speak to how they feel.
I think that’s simply the outcome of wanting to meet someone cheaply and conveniently.
As long as supply and demand match, I don’t see a problem.
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I’m a BB7 male member.
I was a little put off when I saw an older, gray-haired man walking hand in hand with a young woman at the station. Ever since then, I’ve avoided being overly touchy or holding hands in public.
I also find couples painful to look at when the man looks like a sleazy old guy, is vulgar, lacks personal hygiene, or has zero fashion sense. So I try to be mindful of my own appearance.
I also find papa-katsu couples cringe when the woman talks in a childish or vulgar way, is sloppy or arrogant, and the man is desperately fawning over her. So if I ever end up making an offer to someone like that, I make a point of ending things quickly.
As long as I meet my own standards for the kind of papa-katsu couple I don’t want to be, I don’t care what other people think.
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here with an answer as well.
If you’re still concerned about your partner’s appearance, you have a long way to go. There are plenty of kind, good-natured people regardless of how they look. You probably couldn’t tell what she was like as a person at first, but once you talk to her directly, you may find her pleasant to be around.
Still, I suppose that’s how it may look to people around you. As the saying goes, “Learn from others’ behavior and correct your own,” so perhaps it would be best to take it as a reminder to be mindful in your own activities.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
Haha.
> Do you all continue your activities after overcoming experiences like this?
> Will I eventually stop being so rattled?
It’s been over a year since I started, but I still haven’t gotten over it myself（笑）
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