A curious monthly supporter saw my health insurance card and apparently found out my parents’ address. He messaged me saying, “I just walked past your house.” Since I live alone, I didn’t notice anything, but now that it involves my family home, I’m feeling uneasy.
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It would be best to quietly distance myself from him, right?
I’m a male member, BB7.
This is definitely not okay.
I can’t relate to men who are overly curious, even as a fellow man. On top of that, he’s the type who gets carried away by himself, with no imagination whatsoever about how the other person might feel receiving messages like these.
Try to distance yourself little by little without provoking him. I hope this doesn’t turn into a stalking situation.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
> It would be best to quietly distance myself from him, right?
I think that’s the right approach.
No matter how well the relationship may seem to be going, and even if the male member you’re seeing has been treating you like a gentleman, he should never do anything that makes you feel uneasy.
Relationships through the club should always be mutually beneficial. Now that you’re gradually losing the benefits of this relationship, regrettably, you should end it promptly while slowly creating some distance.
There are certainly male members who will understand your preferences and terms for dating. First and foremost, it’s important to make sure you have a secure situation around you.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
The man probably didn’t mean anything by that message, but from the recipient’s perspective, it sounds like something out of a horror or suspense story. It’s really creepy.
I also know where one of my girls lives, but I would never go to her house. Anyone with common sense would realize she’d be put off if I sent her a message like that.
I’m sure the person asking this question is feeling uneasy, so I hope you’ll be careful about how you handle things from here on and that nothing strange happens.
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