[I’m a male member.
I understand that female members can choose to hide themselves from specific male members, but can they still see that man’s profile from their side?
Also, can male members similarly choose to hide themselves from specific female members?]
I’m the person who asked this question.
Was my wording unclear? (汗) I’d like to add some clarification so there’s no misunderstanding.
I’m not particularly dissatisfied with the system. I simply had a purely “technical” question because I thought that if I understood exactly how we appear to each other, I could be more considerate in my words and actions when meeting the woman in question.
So, thank you for your understanding. m(_ _)m
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I sincerely apologize.
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For some reason, I feel this system is somewhat questionable—it seems good in some ways, but not so good in others. I think it would be better if both sides were more open with each other.
Since we’re both members of the club and doing more or less the same thing, I don’t think there’s anything to hide. What do you think?
It kind of feels like we’re sneaking around（笑）
I gather that you also feel it’s unfair（笑）
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My understanding is that the current system is available only to female members.
Technically, your suggestion should be easy to implement: they would simply need to expand the existing setting for female members to include male members as well.
After that, it’s just a question of whether they choose to do it or not.
The real question, I think, is whether there’s any need to do that in the first place（笑）
All members are free to use various ways of meeting people—not just this club.
In that context, we happened to meet through this club. So I found myself thinking, “Why not just make an exception for this club and allow both parties to be open about it, instead of having to sneak around?”
You were concerned about being considerate, but I think the best approach is simply to treat the woman you meet with the utmost consideration in your attitude and conduct toward the relationship.
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