This is the story of the most impressive woman involved in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) that I know.

Her dates with men are basically limited to dinner or shopping. Every time they meet, wealthy men give her at least ¥200,000 as an allowance, and for Christmas and her birthday, they give her gifts like Hermès Birkins and Louis Vuitton Capucines. She absolutely refuses any physical relationship, no matter who the man is or how much he offers. However, after their dates, she has them book a room for her at the Ritz, then the men go home while she stays there alone. She also seems to get invited to paid drinking parties, so I think she earns over ¥2 million a month through papa-katsu. (Apparently, she pays gift taxes, just to be clear.) She doesn’t have a background as a former celebrity or secretary, isn’t a breathtaking beauty who makes everyone turn around, and isn’t particularly fluent in foreign languages. Nor is she used to handling men from working in the nightlife industry. In terms of looks and overall profile, she’s just a somewhat pretty, ordinary girl who resembles Ryoko Hirosue. But once you talk to her, you realize how quick-witted she is. No matter what topic you bring up, she always responds in her own words. She never gets boring to talk to, and spending time with her gives you confidence, so I suppose she’s what people call a lucky woman who brings success to the men around her. The answerers on this site often criticize women who only go out for meals and drinks, so I imagine she might be unpopular here for satisfying men mentally rather than physically, though… Apparently, she once asked one of the men, “If we can’t have a physical relationship, why do you do so much for me?” He replied, “I’m a patron investing in your dreams, not someone looking for an equal exchange. Rather than thinking about what you can give me in return, I’d be happier if you thought about what you can do with this money. That gives the money I’ve invested greater value from an investor’s perspective.” She herself also seems to view papa-katsu not as a way to trade away her youth and beauty, but as an opportunity for personal growth. Sorry for the long post, but… this is actually the story of a woman I’ve fallen in love with. With financial support from her patron, she started a business, and we became close through that business. In the first place, I met her because a patron who was a client of my business introduced us, saying, “There’s a woman I support. I’d like you to work with her on a certain project.” So I have no idea how I could get her to see me romantically. Would it really be difficult to have someone strong, who enjoys being alone and always seems to be having fun, as my partner?