Tips Dec 15, 2019 21:01

I was accepted on the day of my interview the other day.

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(I’m a female member.) Thank you so much for giving me this opportunity! I’m truly happy! As a complete beginner to dating clubs and papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I’ve been thinking about what I should do to start receiving offers, among other things. I was so nervous while filming the video during my interview that I don’t feel like it turned out very well… I can’t help wondering why someone as inexperienced as me was accepted on the same day. I’m not sure if calling you all “more experienced members” is the right way to put it, but if you have any advice, such as things I should do differently, I’d really appreciate it! I haven’t been able to see the video or the photos taken during my interview, so I’m worried about how I’m being presented to the male members. Sorry for the long message. Thank you in advance. m(_ _)m
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斉藤さんだぞ♪
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This is Saito♪, your column writer. First of all, congratulations on being accepted! I hope you meet a wonderful man. If you write in the comments, “I also actively use the Q&A section,” Mac or I might make you an offer… haha.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. First of all, nothing can begin unless you receive an offer, so I think it’s a good idea to post a “Nice to meet you” comment and one or two well-taken private photos. Next, and most importantly, I recommend carefully reconsidering the kind of relationship you want to pursue, one image at a time, and thinking it through thoroughly. For this review, I suggest reading through the columns provided by the Universe Group—“Cinderella” and “Darling”—as well as this anonymous Q&A forum, the “After-Date Survey” on the member page, and the staff blog. I recommend going through all the past articles at least once. You may find hints in them about the kind of relationship you envision. I don’t know what type of relationship you’re looking for, but it’s best to establish how you want to interact with male members before going on your first date. Looking at past trends, although there tend to be relatively many offers when someone first joins, they seem to gradually decrease afterward. I recommend acting strategically from the beginning so that you can maintain a stable papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) arrangement even if the offers eventually stop altogether. I hope you build a relationship where you firmly hold on to your papa’s “heart and other important parts,” and he can’t bear to leave you.
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here. As for how to receive offers... Some women get offers without doing anything, while others don’t. So there’s no one thing you can do that guarantees offers, but I recommend filling in the comment section you can edit when you log in. You don’t need to repeat anything already written in your profile. Instead, try adding something different.
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