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Dec 15, 2019 13:51
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I’m the person who asked this question. Thank you all for your answers.
There was something in Mac’s answer that caught my attention, so I’d like to ask one more question.
I’m familiar with things like medication to delay menstruation and menstrual sponges. However, birth control pills and other medication that alters hormone levels don’t agree with my body, and I’ve experienced side effects in the past, so I can’t take them.
You wrote in your PPS that using a menstrual sponge could be an option, but do men really want to have sex badly enough to do so even when a woman is using one?
As Papuwa also mentioned, bacteria multiply during menstruation, and there are risks such as pelvic infections and endometriosis.
In my case, I don’t want to have sex during my period because it hurts once penetration goes slightly deeper, although stimulation near the entrance is still tolerable.
Of course, as I wrote in my previous question, whether or not someone can have sex during their period varies from woman to woman.
Sorry this got so long, but these are the two things I’d like to ask:
① Do men want to have sex during a woman’s period even if she uses a menstrual sponge?
② From a woman’s perspective, do you feel uncomfortable having sex during your period?
Also, I’m only asking this because I’m curious, so you don’t have to answer. If a woman Mac was seeing got her period, would you have her take medication or use a menstrual sponge or some other measure? Or would you have sex with another woman instead?
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I’m not Mack, but I’ll answer anyway.
Since there are all kinds of men out there, I think it’s best to make your decision carefully. If a woman feels even slightly uneasy about someone, I simply meet someone else, so it never gets to that point.
Don’t put too much pressure on yourself or feel obligated to think, “I have to do this…” Just be yourself, meet naturally, and spend time with a man who makes you feel comfortable.
Also, some men may gradually push things further, so if you agree to everything, it can become endless.
Please value feeling comfortable and at ease even more than sex.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
> ① Do men want to have sex while a woman is on her period if she uses a sea sponge?
Not particularly.
Your health comes first, so I believe waiting until things settle down is what it means to be mature.
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👨 Male
Universe member
In my 30s and new here.
This is based on my personal opinion and experience, but I think most people—both men and women—would rather not have sex during a woman’s period. That said, there are definitely people of both sexes who do have sex during menstruation.
Ultimately, I think it comes down to personal preference.