I’m a female member.

I’m BB7, a male member. There’s no such group as the “Universe Club Male Members’ Association,” and even if information were shared within a group, it wouldn’t be shared with 100, 200, or 1,000 people. At most, it would be among five or six people, maybe ten. That alone wouldn’t have any real impact. On the other hand, did you do something that would cause people to spread bad rumors about you? If what Sozetsu-san wrote actually happened, then it’s possible that your offers have decreased as a result.

Maezawa from the Business Planning Office here as well. As you said, there are people who form groups, and I’m aware that there are multiple groups. I also know that, in the past, these people set their own going rates for women’s allowances without permission. (They set them at the same amounts as matching sites, so they’re extremely low ＞＜) However, unless they do something that violates the club’s rules, the club has no grounds to say anything to them. It’s unfortunate. I don’t know exactly what kind of exchanges take place within those groups, but I believe some staff members know how much information is being shared through casual conversations. > I haven’t received a single offer since I broke up with that man. For example, if people in the group have agreed not to make offers to the same woman because they don’t want to end up seeing the same person, then you may stop receiving offers from that group. However, groups like that represent only a small portion of the club as a whole. If you’ve stopped receiving offers entirely, there may be another reason. For instance, it’s possible that the club has received negative reports about you. If you’re concerned, we can at least check the comments on your club profile and look into whether there may be another cause. If so, please contact Maezawa using the form below: https://universe-club.jp/help/contact/

This is Saito, the columnist ♪ Did you do something first? I get the impression that perhaps it wasn’t exactly an amicable breakup... Joining an exclusive dating club can take quite a bit of courage, and many men become members through referrals from existing male members. In those cases, it’s easy to imagine that they may seek advice on all sorts of things—things they wouldn’t even feel comfortable posting in an anonymous Q&A box. That said, as everyone has pointed out, it’s highly unlikely that you’re connected in a group with all 2,000 men—or even with every male member. Even if it were a group of 100 people (which I doubt), 1,900 of them wouldn’t know anything about you. So please don’t worry. And the reverse is also true. As Papuwa says, rather than focusing on the 1,900 men who don’t know you, I feel it’s several times more challenging to compare and compete with 8,000 other women who are your rivals.

I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. > I heard that some male members registered with Universe form groups to share information about women. In my case, I don’t see any value or need to promote or make my relationships public, so I don’t share information at all. That said, it seems some members do share information, and I can certainly understand why you might be concerned if those groups were to become large. However, even if you call them groups, I imagine they consist of no more than around 10 people and probably account for less than 10% of the male membership. (That’s just my own unsupported guess.) I think it would be better to focus on the remaining 90% rather than worrying about that small minority. You may simply not have received an offer lately. Try having new photos taken, updating your profile comments, attending events, or consulting the club, and then wait for your next opportunity. That may also be better for your peace of mind. Besides, even if rumors are circulating, I don’t think people will act on rumors alone so easily. In the end, most people will want to see things for themselves and make their own judgment, so it may be best not to rush and simply wait patiently. When your next meeting comes along, if you value that connection, you’ll no longer need to worry even if no new offers come in. Have confidence in yourself and keep at it.